“Do not take life too seriously. You will never get out of it alive”. Elbert Hubbard

“If the problem can be solved why worry?  If the problem cannot be solved worrying will do you no good.”  Santideva. Why you think there is a constant pressure on your life ? Is it possible to let the steam out and lead a better  peaceful and contended  life ? What are all the ways you think you are getting pressure even on your routine day-to-day life ? Let us discuss. Family pressure You want to do something you like but the family members advising you otherwise.You have two choices,either go ahead and do what you wanted to do or listen to your family. The emotional tactic adopted by family members is crucial in influencing your thoughts. Solution– Since you are grown up ,you can take your own well-meant decisions. I feel emotional pressure by the family members is a kind of  ‘blackmail’. Social pressure It is defined as the influence that is exerted on a person or groups.It can be argument,persuasion and conformity and demands. Solution- Develop self confidence and mingle with people who accept you as you are.  ( Like minded ) Peer Pressure Peer pressure is the direct influence on people by peers, or the effect on an individual who gets encouraged to follow their peers by changing their attitudes, values or behaviors to conform to those of the influencing group or individual. You will fall prey to peer pressure because you want to fit in .The […]

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Ego bubble

Your ego may be just a soap bubble.May be for a few seconds it will remain,rising higher in the air. Perhaps for a few seconds it may have a rainbow,but is only for a few seconds.In this infinite & eternal existence your egos go on bursting every moment. It is better not to have any attachment with soap bubbles ‘ […]

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