Are you the ‘Difficult Spouse’ ?

  It’s 5.4 minute read. If you are a wife or husband and on many occasions you think you are disappointed because of the other…..and think the other is the ‘difficult spouse’…. then this article is for you. I am thankful to you if you felt there is something wrong in either of the parties and the mistake can be rectified easily. There are two types of marriages.( Marriages are made in heaven.Is itn’t ?) 1.Love marriage 2.Arranged marriage ( In most of the eastern countries ) Irrespective of the type of marriage,both the man and the woman of his love have to adjust with each other in order to be compatible. In fact, post marriage life is full of challenges and it exposes the couple to myriads of issues. But we all know the truth. One day or other both the man & the woman have to face unpleasant situation of opposing & different opinions and views, in matters of their day-to-day ‘living together’ The reality of the so-called colorful future has to show its fangs,since it is waiting to strike first ! Once the misunderstanding happens and prolongs….There are two options available You decided you are not going to adjust at all…then Apply for divorce and probably matter can come to end to the mutual satisfaction,and thus ending the very discussion I am trying to make. If the above choice is not the option due to so many […]

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Are you listening ?

Are you listening ?

You can agree with me or you can be wrong.              etcy.com It’s natural to think that you are right.But experience should teach you that sometimes you are not and that is wise to listen to others Thank you  Philosophy Through Photography   IS pixabay ,auroraproduction.com

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Love is scarce- Really ?

The only thing we never get enough of is love; and the only thing we never give enough of is love. ― Henry Miller Why this happens ? We all  think that, Love means romance.But it is not so. There are 7 types of love. Storge- Familial love Phila-friendship ( shared goodwill) Eros-Sexual or passionate love Agape-Universal love ( unconditional love) Ludus-Playful or uncommitted love Pragma- Long term love ( married people) Philautia-self love ( healthy or unhealthy) ( source Psychologytoday.com, Quora) My discussion is limited to the married couple. Think for a second. Can you tell  the difference between ‘school and life‘ ? ” In school you are taught a lesson and then given a test.   In life,you are given a test,that teaches you the lesson” Tom Bodett So what I am trying to tell is Life gives an opportunity to learn lessons  from our experience, in this situation….. day to day problems faced by the couple,thus making them more accommodating,understanding and helpful to each other. Thus we can become wiser by experiencing these experiences. But here is the hitch. The problem comes in the unknown form of ‘E G O ‘ nullifying all the benefits of life’s lessons,which we learn over the course of time. Why can’t we make an attempt to look into this ? Why can not we prevent this disease before it strikes us ? When we are able to manage life style diseases […]

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Can one survive without EGO ?

Ego, n. “A person’s sense of self-esteem or self-importance” Everyone of us have some amount of ego,it’s a fact. Let us accept it. And if somebody claims that he or she is does not have ego,it’s certain that this person is lying. Anyone who’s successful, whatever way it has been achieved has a certain amount of ego and it is the truth. Ego is the illusion created by our thoughts and none of us are immune from it. Even persons with humility,on occassion succumbs to Ego. “True humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less.” – C.S. Lewis Dear friends what is your take on EGO ? Talent is God-given, be humble.                                                                                           Fame is man-given, be thankful.                                                                                   Conceit is self-given, be careful. John Wooden

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Flaunt Philosophy

via Daily Prompt: Flaunt Is flaunting good or bad ? How flaunting is enacted by humans and other Gods creations ? It is said that various creatures of God flaunt the beauty in their body to attract mates .That is perfectly OK. But in humans ? Whatever you flaunt…..it is a bit depressing to others,since human brain always carves for something better and others may feel inferior , leading  to jealousy  and totally destroying the inner peace. Instead I feel one should be modest. Remember flaunting attracts more enemies than friends. https://dailypost.wordpress.com/prompts/flaunt/    

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