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Together

For this post, I am concentrating on the couples being together forever

The best couples are the ones who have realistic expectations as far as romance and relationships are concerned.
Both proper communication & mutual respect is important.

No assumptions, presumptions or expectations!

Never keep a secret and be frank. Express your feelings openly.

Be the first one to forgive.

Happy Forgivers!

Behind every happy couple lies two people who have fought hard to overcome all obstacles and interference be that way. Why?? Because it’s what they wanted. ‘Unknown

“A Happy relationship is made up of two good Forgivers” Unknown

And what is the secret of couples being together forever?

‘The happiest couples never have the same character. They have the best understanding of their differences” Unknown.

And the definition of a perfect couple?

“A perfect couple is just two imperfect people, who refuse to give up on each other,” Unknown

To remain a good couple together, what they must do?

It’s very simple, my friend.

“If you fight like a married couple,

Talk like best friends,

Flirt like first love,

Protect each other like siblings,

It’s meant to be” Unknown

Thank you.

Namaste 🙏🙏🙏

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This post is part of Ragtag Daily prompt- TOGETHER challenge

Friday Thoughts

How many couples are this lucky?

Being loved and at the same time extending ‘unconditional Love’ to each other!

Such a couple do exist in this world but very very rare!!

I am saying this because otherwise the word- ‘Ego’ would not be existing.

“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”
Lao Tzu

I hope everybody makes a sincere effort.

Thank you.

Namaste 🙏🙏🙏

Philosophy Through Photography

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Happily ever after…

 

Happily ever after

After going through years of litigation to get royalties due to him,the guy who coined the term ‘ Happily ever after ‘ lived reasonably well for a while Demetri Martin     photo by Kumar Saurabh.Pexels

Merriam Webster defines Fairy-tale as

” A story in which improbable events lead to a happy ending ”

Is ‘fairy tale’ possible after the marriage ?

Happiness you see,it’s just an illusion of fate,a Heavenly sleight of hand,designed to make you believe in fairy tales.But there’s no happily ever after.You’ll only find happy ending in books.In some books Ellen Hopkins

Why can’t you be realistic rather than expecting Mills & Boons type of Romantic novel stories ?

Why do you…specially addressed to you,the young generation fall into this trap ?

You are wise enough to know that it is a myth and a thrash !

Then why you have great expectations ?

12 solid reasons why married people are not wholly happy

Why you HOPE to have an everlasting happiness based on your romanticism of future, only to be disturbed emotionally in the initial stages and later, get depressed,disappointed,dejected even divorced and crying all the time ?

I have a fairy tale for you.Short & Sweet and Please don’t cry !

Read this shortest fairy tale.

Will you marry me ?

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Once upon a time an average looking guy asked one beautiful girl ” will you marry me ?

The girl without hesitation said “NO”

And the guy lived happily ever after and rode motorcycles and went fishing and hunting and played golf a lot and drank beer scotch and his favorite tequila and saved plenty of money in the bank and left the toilet seat up and farted whenever he wanted and many times forgot to clean his shit as he was enjoying his life meant to be lived happily ever after.

The End

How to make the young couple understand that Life is not a Fairy Tale ?

Mirror sighed. “I believe everyone deserves a happily ever after. But I think that happy endings don’t just happen by accident- you can’t wait for one. You have to make them happen. Michael Buckley

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times,always with the same person. Mignon Maclaughli

It’s only possible to live ‘happily ever after’ on a daily basis Margaret Wander Bonnano

Wife & Husband-Can’t they be best friends for life ?

Any Lessons ?

‘And they lived happily ever after’ is one of the most tragic sentences in literature.It’s tragic because it’s falsehood.It’s a myth that has led generations to expect something from marriage that is not possible Joshua L Liebman

I must say that the biggest lesson you can learn in life is not castle in the skies,happily ever after.The biggest lesson we have to give to our children is the truth.we’re all built with illusions.And they break. Goldie Hawn

Please share your thoughts

Thank you.
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Shortest fairy tale-inspiration-Mike Crafton,Azquotes.com,lifescoolquotes. PhotoCredits-Photo credits Kumar Saurabh.Pexels

Love is scarce- Really ?

The only thing we never get enough of is love; and the only thing we

never give enough of is love.

Henry Miller

Why this happens ?

We all  think that, Love means romance.But it is not so.

There are 7 types of love.

  1. Storge- Familial love
  2. Phila-friendship ( shared goodwill)
  3. Eros-Sexual or passionate love
  4. Agape-Universal love ( unconditional love)
  5. Ludus-Playful or uncommitted love
  6. Pragma- Long term love ( married people)
  7. Philautia-self love ( healthy or unhealthy)

( source Psychologytoday.com, Quora)

My discussion is limited to the married couple.

Think for a second.

Can you tell  the difference between ‘school and life‘ ?

” In school you are taught a lesson and then given a test.

  In life,you are given a test,that teaches you the lesson” Tom Bodett

So what I am trying to tell is Life gives an opportunity to learn lessons  from our experience, in this situation….. day to day problems faced by the couple,thus making them more accommodating,understanding and helpful to each other.

Thus we can become wiser by experiencing these experiences.

But here is the hitch.

The problem comes in the unknown form of ‘E G O nullifying all the benefits of life’s lessons,which we learn over the course of time.

Why can’t we make an attempt to look into this ? Why can not we prevent this disease before it strikes us ?

When we are able to manage life style diseases with sugar-free,fat-free,salt free,gluten-free etc. etc….why can’t we give a try for Ego- free ?

The only way to achieve peace and harmony is becoming ‘EGO LESS’,

and this should be the  ultimate outcome of your life’s lessons,if you

are willing to learn.

Another aspect is ,to be able to differentiate, the difference between love & Possession.Don’t think ,just because you love the person…you got right to possess the person.( as if the person is a property)

Remember love is selfless,coming from the bottom of the heart with total dedication,sincerity and commitment to lead a supportive life together.

And so…..

We make our life miserable because we never make an attempt to understand the full potential of true love,and thus we make ‘love’ scarce in spite of its abundance.

True Love gives you, the real experience of what all you dream and

Ego gives you, all the heartache.

“A flower cannot blossom without sunshine, and man cannot live without love”. – Max Muller

 

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