Universal rules- Rule No 1.King is always right Rule No 2 If the King is wrong,then follow the rule no 1,(ie,the King is always right).
Blame Game Be frank.We all indulge in blame game,whatever may be the nature of the problem we face, because we don’t wish to take the responsibility .We even argue that we are always correct,and the other is at fault.( remember the rules…the king is always correct ! ) Very rare to find people,who blame themselves. The unlaid rule is I can never go wrong ! Why it is so ? Let us think. We all lie,and learnt the art during childhood and fine tune it as we grow, and to escape the situation,’lie’ comes handy. By blaming others, you are in a defensive mood,and can pass the buck easily. “Blame is a beautiful thing, baby. Blame keeps this whole planet spinning. You can point your finger at the next man, you can shift the weight onto him, you don’t have to carry that shit around yourself. You can slide into bed and get a good night’s nap. Yeah, right”. Narrator Augustus Hill ( played by Harold Perrineau) from Oz tv series Remember, Blame is fascinating – “it shapes our lives. It can be a benign way of positioning ourselves, a gentle joust or banter, or it can be poisonous, hurtful or devastating for its victims. It can tear apart marriages and fracture work relationships; it can disable major social programmes; it can inflict damage on powerful corporations; it can bring down governments; it can start wars and justify genocides”. Stephen Fineman, […]