Why most of you have a negative attitude towards ‘People Pleasing’?

It’s a 3.4 minute read. Cambridge dictionary says, People pleaser is someone who cares a lot about whether other people like them,and always wants others to approve of their actions. To be frank,that is the one of the ways of getting satisfaction and peace of mind. Read the following famous quotes “If you live for people’s acceptance,you will die from their rejection”. LekRae “People pleasing pleases everyone but the pleaser”.Reshma Saujani, goodreads “I can’t tell you the key to success,but the key to failure is trying to please every one”. Bill Cosby “The only thing wrong with trying to please everyone is that there is always at least one person who will remain unhappy.You. Elizabeth Parker “The art of pleasing is the art of deceiving”. French proverb Such above quotes are abundant,but Don’t you think,there is nothing wrong in being a people’s pleaser ? Is not a fact that all of us are, ‘people’s pleaser’ at one time or other ? Then why have a double standard ? “I have learned that pleasing everyone is too hard,but pissing every one is a piece of cake” 🍰 unknown Why do you want to ‘piss off’ others and increase the number of your enemies ? Why not say ‘ YES’ ? People-pleasing is considered a negative trait and liability. Why can’t you say ‘yes’ and be a people’s pleaser for a change ? If saying ‘yes’ works to your advantage….why not be […]

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Why happiness eluding you ?

Is happiness eluding you ?

  “Happiness is like a butterfly,the more you chase it, it will elude you,but if you turn your attention to other things,it will come and sit softly on your shoulder” Thoreau In spite of inventions of more entertainments / pleasures ,still human being carves for more happiness. Why happiness eludes ? Simple. We analyse happiness instead of experiencing it. And […]

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