Category: Romance

Happily ever after…

 

Happily ever after

After going through years of litigation to get royalties due to him,the guy who coined the term ‘ Happily ever after ‘ lived reasonably well for a while Demetri Martin     photo by Kumar Saurabh.Pexels

Merriam Webster defines Fairy-tale as

” A story in which improbable events lead to a happy ending ”

Is ‘fairy tale’ possible after the marriage ?

Happiness you see,it’s just an illusion of fate,a Heavenly sleight of hand,designed to make you believe in fairy tales.But there’s no happily ever after.You’ll only find happy ending in books.In some books Ellen Hopkins

Why can’t you be realistic rather than expecting Mills & Boons type of Romantic novel stories ?

Why do you…specially addressed to you,the young generation fall into this trap ?

You are wise enough to know that it is a myth and a thrash !

Then why you have great expectations ?

12 solid reasons why married people are not wholly happy

Why you HOPE to have an everlasting happiness based on your romanticism of future, only to be disturbed emotionally in the initial stages and later, get depressed,disappointed,dejected even divorced and crying all the time ?

I have a fairy tale for you.Short & Sweet and Please don’t cry !

Read this shortest fairy tale.

Will you marry me ?

Photo by Caleb Oquendo from Pexels

Once upon a time an average looking guy asked one beautiful girl ” will you marry me ?

The girl without hesitation said “NO”

And the guy lived happily ever after and rode motorcycles and went fishing and hunting and played golf a lot and drank beer scotch and his favorite tequila and saved plenty of money in the bank and left the toilet seat up and farted whenever he wanted and many times forgot to clean his shit as he was enjoying his life meant to be lived happily ever after.

The End

How to make the young couple understand that Life is not a Fairy Tale ?

Mirror sighed. “I believe everyone deserves a happily ever after. But I think that happy endings don’t just happen by accident- you can’t wait for one. You have to make them happen. Michael Buckley

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times,always with the same person. Mignon Maclaughli

It’s only possible to live ‘happily ever after’ on a daily basis Margaret Wander Bonnano

Wife & Husband-Can’t they be best friends for life ?

Any Lessons ?

‘And they lived happily ever after’ is one of the most tragic sentences in literature.It’s tragic because it’s falsehood.It’s a myth that has led generations to expect something from marriage that is not possible Joshua L Liebman

I must say that the biggest lesson you can learn in life is not castle in the skies,happily ever after.The biggest lesson we have to give to our children is the truth.we’re all built with illusions.And they break. Goldie Hawn

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Philosophy Through Photography

Shortest fairy tale-inspiration-Mike Crafton,Azquotes.com,lifescoolquotes. PhotoCredits-Photo credits Kumar Saurabh.Pexels

Love vs Attachment vs Possessiveness in human relationships.

It’s a 2.5 minute read.

Love has single or multiple meanings ?

Love has only one meaning,that is GIVE.

It is unconditional without expectations and given with total dedication.

Love is finding yourself in the happiness of the others.Love is you, knowing what other person needs rather than what you feel the other person needs.

Love is shown by deeds ,not just by saying ‘I Love you’ whole day and night.

You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free.

Possessiveness vs attachment

If you love some one,set them free.If they come back they are yours;If the don’t they never were ” Richard Bach

Love & Attachment ….are they similar ?

Attachment is the feeling being ‘happy’to have the other person in your life,irrespective of the other persons feelings.

Love,attachment and possessiveness in relationship

“Drop the idea that attachment and love are one thing. They are enemies. It is attachment that destroys all love.” Rajneesh

Actually attachment is nothing but fear of being alone while Love opens your heart and soul to another person.

You are attached to a person because you are selfish in that you need to run the ‘show’ of your life.Whereas True love continues even if there is detachment.

Love empowers you while attachment tells who is dominating.

Love is selfless while attachment is selfish.

In attachment,you hold so tight because you don’t like to lose the person

In love you hold the person gently caring softly with comforting words.

Jetsunma Tenzin Palmo’s quote is apt for an easy understanding.

Attachment says:I love you,therefore you need to make me happy.

Genuine Love says : I love you,therefore I want you to be happy.

What about Possessiveness ?

In relationship,it is defined as ,demanding someone’s total attention and love.

Possession is all about control.

Being possessive is OK in sense you are worried about the well being of your kith and kin but any excess of this….virtually takes away the freedom of your loved ones and remember each individual need some personal space.

Just for your idea the following is suffice,though this is in extreme form.

Thanking you.

Philosophy Through Photography

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