Are you the ‘Difficult Spouse’ ?

  It’s 5.4 minute read. If you are a wife or husband and on many occasions you think you are disappointed because of the other…..and think the other is the ‘difficult spouse’…. then this article is for you. I am thankful to you if you felt there is something wrong in either of the parties and the mistake can be rectified easily. There are two types of marriages.( Marriages are made in heaven.Is itn’t ?) 1.Love marriage 2.Arranged marriage ( In most of the eastern countries ) Irrespective of the type of marriage,both the man and the woman of his love have to adjust with each other in order to be compatible. In fact, post marriage life is full of challenges and it exposes the couple to myriads of issues. But we all know the truth. One day or other both the man & the woman have to face unpleasant situation of opposing & different opinions and views, in matters of their day-to-day ‘living together’ The reality of the so-called colorful future has to show its fangs,since it is waiting to strike first ! Once the misunderstanding happens and prolongs….There are two options available You decided you are not going to adjust at all…then Apply for divorce and probably matter can come to end to the mutual satisfaction,and thus ending the very discussion I am trying to make. If the above choice is not the option due to so many […]

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Can you define Love ?

Why on Earth each person gives a contradictory meaning to such a  simple word called ‘ L O V E ‘   Some negative thoughts  “Love sucks.Sometimes it feels good.Sometimes it’s just another way to bleed”. Laurell K Hamilton “Love is a trap,when it appears we only see its light,not its shadows”. Paul Coelho Love is the word used to label […]

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One can Forgive but can one erase the bitterness ?

Technically majority of us try to forgive, but 100 % of us forget that,we have forgiven, and somewhere the unpleasantness, haunts us for sometime, after all we are human beings !! Some quotes……. “Forgive other,not because thy deserve forgiveness,but because you deserve peace.” Jonathan Lockwood Huie “It’s not an easy journey, to get to a place where you forgive people.But […]

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