Are you the ‘Difficult Spouse’ ?

  It’s 5.4 minute read. If you are a wife or husband and on many occasions you think you are disappointed because of the other…..and think the other is the ‘difficult spouse’…. then this article is for you. I am thankful to you if you felt there is something wrong in either of the parties and the mistake can be rectified easily. There are two types of marriages.( Marriages are made in heaven.Is itn’t ?) 1.Love marriage 2.Arranged marriage ( In most of the eastern countries ) Irrespective of the type of marriage,both the man and the woman of his love have to adjust with each other in order to be compatible. In fact, post marriage life is full of challenges and it exposes the couple to myriads of issues. But we all know the truth. One day or other both the man & the woman have to face unpleasant situation of opposing & different opinions and views, in matters of their day-to-day ‘living together’ The reality of the so-called colorful future has to show its fangs,since it is waiting to strike first ! Once the misunderstanding happens and prolongs….There are two options available You decided you are not going to adjust at all…then Apply for divorce and probably matter can come to end to the mutual satisfaction,and thus ending the very discussion I am trying to make. If the above choice is not the option due to so many […]

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Can you define Love ?

Why on Earth each person gives a contradictory meaning to such a  simple word called ‘ L O V E ‘   Some negative thoughts  “Love sucks.Sometimes it feels good.Sometimes it’s just another way to bleed”. Laurell K Hamilton “Love is a trap,when it appears we only see its light,not its shadows”. Paul Coelho Love is the word used to label […]

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One can Forgive but can one erase the bitterness ?

Technically majority of us try to forgive, but 100 % of us forget that,we have forgiven, and somewhere the unpleasantness, haunts us for sometime, after all we are human beings !! Some quotes……. “Forgive other,not because thy deserve forgiveness,but because you deserve peace.” Jonathan Lockwood Huie “It’s not an easy journey, to get to a place where you forgive people.But […]

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Happy mother’s day

Wishing all mothers in the world ‘ A happy mother’s day ‘ “A mother understands what a child does not say.” Jewish proverb “We are born of love; love is our mother.” Rumi “A mother is she who can take the place of all others but whose place no one else can take.” Cardinal Mermillod “An ounce of mother is […]

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Friendship vs Love…which triumps ?

It’s 2.2 minute read “Sometimes,in life there really are bonds formed that can never be broken. Sometimes you really can find that one person who will stand by you no matter what. May be you will find it in a spouse and celebrate it with your dream wedding. But there’s also the chance that the person you can count on […]

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Love the unlovely

Love the unlovely. There is no greatness in you if you show your love only to the lovely . Let your love be uniform, both to the lovely & unlovely. Let love overlook other’s faults and shortcomings, always believe the best about them,and never lose hope for them. Thank you Philosophy Through Photography   Credits Pixabay,Auroraproductions

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Stressed? Think of Romantic Friendship !

Romantic Friendship

This is a 2.7 minute read.Please proceed if you can spare this much time. Before I start the discussion,it’s better we know the definition of ‘Romantic Friendship’. According to ‘Wikipedia’ “A romantic friendship, passionate friendship, or affectionate friendship is a very close but typically non-sexual relationship between friends,often involving a degree of physical closeness beyond that which is common in the […]

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Tongue-tasteic!

The tongue is a fantastic organ! You Use it for speech, taste and decorative/culture ( tongue piercing) It’s a strong arsenal in your body Tongue is a blessing and also your nemesis It can make the difference between life & death, joy & sorrow Can make or break the relationship Can sooth you or hurt you. With the same tongue […]

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Universal rules- Rule No 1.King is always right Rule No 2 If the King is wrong,then follow the rule no 1,(ie,the King is always right).

Blame Game Be frank.We all indulge in blame game,whatever may be the nature of the problem we face, because we don’t wish to take the responsibility .We even argue that we are always correct,and the other is at fault.( remember the rules…the king is always correct ! ) Very rare to find people,who blame themselves. The  unlaid rule is  I can never go wrong ! Why it is so ? Let us think. We all lie,and learnt the art during childhood and fine tune it as we grow, and to escape the situation,’lie’ comes handy. By blaming others, you are in a defensive mood,and can pass the buck easily. “Blame is a beautiful thing, baby. Blame keeps this whole planet spinning. You can point your finger at the next man, you can shift the weight onto him, you don’t have to carry that shit around yourself. You can slide into bed and get a good night’s nap. Yeah, right”. Narrator Augustus Hill ( played by Harold Perrineau) from Oz tv series Remember, Blame is fascinating – “it shapes our lives. It can be a benign way of positioning ourselves, a gentle joust or banter, or it can be poisonous, hurtful or devastating for its victims. It can tear apart marriages and fracture work relationships; it can disable major social programmes; it can inflict damage on powerful corporations; it can bring down governments; it can start wars and justify genocides”. Stephen Fineman, […]

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Sunshine Blogger Award

sunshine-blogger-award

My sincere thanks to   Mariana Catalina, who runs a wonderful blog by name Katherine’s blog ( in Kates World ) She is interested in variety of subjects and interested in, Articles that point to feelings, and thoughts Practical articles – about cooking, diy; Informative articles – about certain types of products, projects and others. Please do check her blog. The […]

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Thursday Thoughts

Good morning,Thursday thoughts,quotes

Good Morning Welcome Every morning with a smile. Look on the new day as another special gift from your Creator, another Golden opportunity to complete what you were unable to finish yesterday. Be a self starter. Let your first hour set the theme of success and positive action that is certain to echo through your entire day. Today Will Never […]

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Accept it.We all indulge in ‘Blame Game’

Blame is a beautiful thing, baby. Blame keeps this whole planet spinning. You can point your finger at the next man, you can shift the weight onto him, you don’t have to carry that shit around yourself. You can slide into bed and get a good night’s nap. Yeah, right. Narrator-Augustus Hill ( played by Harold Perrineau) from Oz tv series Remember, Blame is fascinating – it shapes our lives. It can be a benign way of positioning ourselves, a gentle joust or banter, or it can be poisonous, hurtful or devastating for its victims. It can tear apart marriages and fracture work relationships; it can disable major social programmes; it can inflict damage on powerful corporations; it can bring down governments; it can start wars and justify genocides. Stephen Fineman, The Blame Business: The Uses and Misuses of Accountability Don’t forget, “All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won’t succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.” Wayne Dyer Any thoughts on how not to get trapped by the Blame game ? […]

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Monkey Lessons

Monkey lessons

Don’t think of yourself as an ugly person, Think of yourself as a Beautiful Monkey -Soojie Always I wonder How we are different from Animals. As you can see in the above photo ,the big monkey( I presume ,the teacher ) with its back facing us, seems to be busy teaching its first morning lesson to the students. You can […]

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CASTLE IN THE ‘SAND’

Castle the sand

“We are like children building a sand castle. We embellish it with beautiful shells, bits of driftwood, and pieces of coloured glass. The castle is ours, off limits to others. We’re willing to attack if others threaten to hurt it. Yet despite all our attachment, we know that the tide will inevitably come in and sweep the sand castle away. The […]

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Daily Horoscope..boon or bane ??

crystal ball,crystal ball photography

Crystal Balls are famous for Crystal Gazing ,a methodology used by ‘Readers’ or ‘Seers’ in predicting your future and to tell fortunes, even guiding the clients to decide in solving their current problems. Let me be crystal clear,I am not finding fault with believers of Astrology.Some times I look up for Heavenly advice,when in distress ! Simply put can Astrology […]

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Blog this way…..not that way !!

What is the philosophy behind blogging ? Blogging is a more flexible medium. Here the you can express the emotions,share the life’s experience with blogging community. You can prepare the article leisurely,develop common interest with other bloggers, be more inspirational and encouraging ,bringing happiness and smile in everyone involved. How to blog ? This is million dollar question. You are […]

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Before you plug in a multiple socket, know how much power an outlet can pocket.!!!

Many people boast about their ability in Multitasking and even telling that, this is their single biggest achievement in their lives. What is multitasking? Well, initially it started as an ability of computer to do assigned jobs simultaneously,thus saving lot of time. However the idea slowly creeped into the Human brains. Also we are all aware that human brain thinks very high of itself all the time !!! Here is the example quoted humorously. With age comes skills, it’s called multitasking. I can laugh,cough,sneeze & pee, all at the same time. Joke apart,let me give you,  some day to day examples. Talking over phone while cooking ( as Debra does in Everybody loves Raymond TV serials) Driving the vehicle during a phone conversation. Getting down the stairs,while talking over the phone. Sending e-mails during a servious discussion. Answering a phone call while attending a customer.I can go on and on. “To do two things at a time is to do neither”  –  Pubillous Syrus in I st century BC If you Carefully look In the above photo,you can notice the gentleman is doing multiple things at the same time. 1. Enjoying the songs through headphone. 2. Something kept in his mouth,I am not sure may be a red candy or a plastic card. 3. And he is also checking the currency notes in the purse. “The irony of multitasking is that it’s exhausting: when you’re doing two or three things […]

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Honestly speaking……….

Let us be frank. Let us be even brutally frank. Is it possible to be honest 100%, throughout in your life ? Are we honest with ourselves, or with our friends ? Are we honest in our business or dealings ? Are we honest with our colleagues ? Are we honest with our spouses and children ? Can you count the number of times,you lied so far ? We lie to our children when they are, say between 2 to 7 yrs  that storks bring children ,Tooth Fairy or Father Christmas ,or telling a person on death bed not to worry and that he/she going to live longer etc.( of course with good intention to encourage the person)…just a few examples we continue to lie each and every day to others, depending upon the situations and circumstances.This is a kind of ‘Escapism’ or ‘Giving Excuses’ Many a time we lie because we don’t want to embarrass. You may also lie so as not to hurt others or may lie to get the things done. What about ‘plagiarism’ ? So lying is part and parcel of our life and you can’t separate the two. Honesty hence not necessarily be the best policy, in certain situations. What is your take  ? Please share your views. “No such thing as a man willing to be honest-that would be like a blind man willing to see”    F.Scott Fitzgerald image -pixabay

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Gossip

Gossip

How True it is !! As you can see in the photograph , two Lazy citizens busily ‘gossiping’ in spite of the ‘heavy downpour’ “Gossip is like Three Color Traffic Signal RED stands for the vicious tongue that starts and spreads it YELLOW is for the sick mind that listens and enjoys it, While GREEN is the naive Character, who […]

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