Secret of my long married life……

Let us not be serious all the time of the whole day ! Have some fun ! Remember today is Friday ! Some people ask the secret of our long marriage.We take time to go the restaurant two times a week.A little candle light ,dinner,soft music,and dancing.She goes on Tuesdays,I go on Fridays.    Henry Youngman Thank God it’s Friday […]

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Love is not complicated, people are

  How individual lives are changing ,relationships are thrown into the dust bin,people forgetting the meaning and value & sacredness of ‘LOVE’, Thanks to addiction to social media & smart phones ! Relationships are harder now! “Conversations became texting, Arguments became phone calls, Feelings became subliminal messages, Sex became easy, The word ‘love’ is used out of context., Insecurities became a way of thinking, Getting jealous became a habit, Trust is hard to come by, Being hurt became natural. Leaving became the only option, Sad but true, So if you have something…that is worth it,..don’t take it for granted, Fight for it,don’t let it go”       pinterest Summary – Be selfish,thanks to the inventions. indulge in your liking,Drink till you drop dead,fight without any reason,Ego is your life,jealousy is your partner, Greedy is your nature,Killing innocents is your taste,care not anybody,you owe the happiness you deserve,forget about dieting & exercises which are all money-making machines,,cheating is your mantra,money is everything and enjoy dying your own death,you owe nothing to anybody! Is this the lesson modern-day life style teaching us ? Is this the meaning of advancement in human life ? Is this what all about relationships ? And what about ethics,values,respect,responsibilities ,family relationship ? Please share your thoughts. Thank you. Philosophy Through Photography IS Pixabay

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Do you have ‘Nomophobia’ tendency?

Nomophobia -The term is an abbreviation for “no-mobile-phone phobia“, Cambridge Dictionary says Fear or worry at the idea of being without your mobile phone or unable to use it.  It’s lack of control over the use of a cell phone,a kind of dependence. It includes 1.frequent checking of the cell phone, 2.Not bothering about-face to face interaction during discussions. 3.Using […]

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Why You feel God never answers your prayers ?

Recently one of my friends got depressed and expressed that,the Prayers are not being answered.This made me think about Gods way of looking after His creations. You are a strong believer in God. And you know His Unlimited Powers you have not just one but many wishes to be fulfilled and you go on praying Him. You are disappointed that not all your wishes are granted ! But why ? Isaac Breece beautifully puts it while explaining, “It’s not that God didn’t answer your prayer,it’s that you did not get the response you wanted.”  Isaac Breece As a believer in God ,I know that prayers never go unnoticed or unheard by the Almighty. God gives answers in three ways. 1.He says ‘YES’ and gives you what you want. 2.He says ‘NO’  but still gives you some thing Better. 3.He says ‘WAIT’ and gives you the Best . So leave it to God and He knows when to answer your prayers Remember the ways of God are unexplained. His ways are mysterious. His blessings are miraculous. Have patience. Thanking you Philosophy Through Photography Image source © Dr.Sridhar,2019 All Rights Reserved

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One can Forgive but can one erase the bitterness ?

Technically majority of us try to forgive, but 100 % of us forget that,we have forgiven, and somewhere the unpleasantness, haunts us for sometime, after all we are human beings !! Some quotes……. “Forgive other,not because thy deserve forgiveness,but because you deserve peace.” Jonathan Lockwood Huie “It’s not an easy journey, to get to a place where you forgive people.But […]

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Anger is one letter short of Danger

Anger is defined as “a string feeling of annoyance,displeasure or hostility.” Holding on to Anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. Buddha I am not  here giving  the various reasons as to why one becomes angry or the types of anger. All that I wish is to follow the following quote whenever  you become angry. […]

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Bullshit In the guise of True Love !

Bullshit in the guise of true love.

See this clip(117 seconds) before you proceed further. Does true love exist? I dare ! Rabbi Dr.Abraham calls’Love out of selfishness’ is a Fish Love.He says”Fish love is poisoning marriages,damaging homes and breaking hearts”. Sex,money or power will decide the intensity of the so-called true love. you may blast me that ….I am,atrocious,stone-hearted, silly, crazy, cruel,disgusting and disappointing but I […]

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Have you ever hugged a troll ??

Troll

This article is a 2.5 minute read. This post is in response to my experience with a reader,who is from non-English speaking country, who mistook my English,and became angry.I fully understand this situation in this particular scenario.I even had to take help of fellow readers(English Pundits) But many times we are not that fortunate( I mean language problem) and are […]

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Universal rules- Rule No 1.King is always right Rule No 2 If the King is wrong,then follow the rule no 1,(ie,the King is always right).

Blame Game Be frank.We all indulge in blame game,whatever may be the nature of the problem we face, because we don’t wish to take the responsibility .We even argue that we are always correct,and the other is at fault.( remember the rules…the king is always correct ! ) Very rare to find people,who blame themselves. The  unlaid rule is  I can never go wrong ! Why it is so ? Let us think. We all lie,and learnt the art during childhood and fine tune it as we grow, and to escape the situation,’lie’ comes handy. By blaming others, you are in a defensive mood,and can pass the buck easily. “Blame is a beautiful thing, baby. Blame keeps this whole planet spinning. You can point your finger at the next man, you can shift the weight onto him, you don’t have to carry that shit around yourself. You can slide into bed and get a good night’s nap. Yeah, right”. Narrator Augustus Hill ( played by Harold Perrineau) from Oz tv series Remember, Blame is fascinating – “it shapes our lives. It can be a benign way of positioning ourselves, a gentle joust or banter, or it can be poisonous, hurtful or devastating for its victims. It can tear apart marriages and fracture work relationships; it can disable major social programmes; it can inflict damage on powerful corporations; it can bring down governments; it can start wars and justify genocides”. Stephen Fineman, […]

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Ignore the ‘Agressive World’

When an obnoxious and aggressive world displays its nuttiness just say to yourself, “I have nothing to say to that.”   The world cries, “Give me your agreement or your disagreement but whatever you do, don’t ignore me!”   Intelligently notice both outer and inner darkness then quietly ignore it. Switch your attention back to the present moment with this powerful self-talk statement. You have higher things to think about and darkness’s anguish is not your concern. Every “success” darkness has is based on convincing you that its anguish is your concern. It wants you involved with it, fighting it, trying to help it. Dare to reply instead, “I have nothing to say to that!”   As The Daily Guru said once, “The resistance to the disturbance IS the disturbance.” Work with this exercise this week. Notice how good you start to feel as you cease throwing fuel on the initial disturbances – all those tiny little outer and inner fires that are very significant until you react to them. creditsThe Daily Guru Image Ashish_Choudhary,Pixabay.

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Oh Life ! My Dear Life !

 “Every morning in Africa a gazelle wakes up. It knows it must move faster than the lion or it will not survive. Every morning a lion wakes up and it knows it must move faster than the slowest gazelle or it will starve. It doesn’t matter if you are the lion or the gazelle, when the sun comes up, you better be moving.” Maurice Greene (attributed to Roger Bannister shortly after running the first sub-4 m) How do you feel about modern life of human beings? Any different from animals? As human beings we don’t literally do running, but Are we not into the  ‘Rat race’ to ‘Survive’ at the cost of ‘peace of mind’ & ‘lack of Sleep’? I am trapped into the rat race…which doesn’t seem to end,neither I am able to come out,   in the middle of the race because there are no referees to allow this. Please Give me your thoughts on how we are different and busy clinging to our lives,without any purpose.  

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Accept it.We all indulge in ‘Blame Game’

Blame is a beautiful thing, baby. Blame keeps this whole planet spinning. You can point your finger at the next man, you can shift the weight onto him, you don’t have to carry that shit around yourself. You can slide into bed and get a good night’s nap. Yeah, right. Narrator-Augustus Hill ( played by Harold Perrineau) from Oz tv series Remember, Blame is fascinating – it shapes our lives. It can be a benign way of positioning ourselves, a gentle joust or banter, or it can be poisonous, hurtful or devastating for its victims. It can tear apart marriages and fracture work relationships; it can disable major social programmes; it can inflict damage on powerful corporations; it can bring down governments; it can start wars and justify genocides. Stephen Fineman, The Blame Business: The Uses and Misuses of Accountability Don’t forget, “All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won’t succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.” Wayne Dyer Any thoughts on how not to get trapped by the Blame game ? […]

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Is there any such thing called positive addiction ?

The word ADDICTION sends jitters down the spines. I know you started thinking of drugs,smoking,alcohol,gambling,sex,pornography,food,video games…..and the list goes on. Human being is not immune to ‘weakness’.The greatness lies making the weakness into positive Strength. Have we to think of addiction only in negative term ? Can addiction be ‘Positive’ ? Can’t we have ‘positive addiction’ ? Example- People in […]

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Are you still in the ‘Rat race’ ?

‘Rat Race’ according to Wikipedia A rat race is an endless, self-defeating, or pointless pursuit. The phrase equates humans to rats attempting to earn a reward such as cheese, to no avail. It may also refer to a competitive struggle to get ahead financially or routinely. Do I remember,when I joined the rat race ? I am not sure,but I can recollect 1.My school days. 2.My college days.3 As an employee/consultant & 4. As I am aging. My school days I hate to get up early in the morning,but sadly that is the routine.With Heavy school bag and daily grinding,it used to be a tiresome job. And remember plenty of examination schedules and so much pressure from parents,to get the first rank ,not in one subject but all the subjects and throughout schooling and the competition among students was heavy,as to who gets the first rank,so that one can be in good books of the teachers,principal etc. Even in the school sports schedules, there is no let up.One has to get some medal without fail. So much of rat race in schooling days.Why the rat race in schools ?Any idea ? It’s only for better ranking so that admission to my preferred colleges is easier. My college days Those days Parents wished me to become a doctor since it was a respectable profession in the society and also better financial prospects. To get an admission into the Medical college is […]

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Are you a ‘wanting’ or a ‘giving’ personality?

First let us talk about ‘Wanting’ personalities- More money ,more popularity,more pleasure,more likes in social media,more than 1000 friends/follows in social media,more achievements ( though positive ),more power one can go on… and remember, we are never tired of ‘wanting’ more.This has become a human trait. Why you want more and more …..and even more ? Probably you fear the […]

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Blog this way…..not that way !!

What is the philosophy behind blogging ? Blogging is a more flexible medium. Here the you can express the emotions,share the life’s experience with blogging community. You can prepare the article leisurely,develop common interest with other bloggers, be more inspirational and encouraging ,bringing happiness and smile in everyone involved. How to blog ? This is million dollar question. You are […]

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Key to ‘successful failure’

Key to failure,pleasing,

Key to failure “I don’t know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody” ‘unknown’ First of all I do not understand why on the earth one has to go on and on……pleasing each and every one ! The fact is… even on many occasions you can’t please your own kith & Kin. “Trying […]

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Tension Free…. Stress Free…you think it’s a distant dream ?

As you are busy with fast paced life , you are left with lots of tension,anxiety resulting in stress.you start thinking as if all the problems happening to you only. Just relax.All of are undergoing the same, at one time or the other.You can neither run away from the problems, nor start dreaming of positive thoughts,The two popular advices..easier said than followed… Just listen to the quotes by unknown and known wise souls. If a problem can be solved, no need to worry about it. If a problem cannot be solved what is the use of worrying? Worries and tensions are like birds , We cannot stop them from flying near us, But we can certainly stop them from making a nest in our mind. The tension you feel from one person may be the tension you are causing for another. Worrying does not take away tomorrow’s troubles. It takes away today’s peace. Stress is the trash of modern life we all generate it, but if you don’t dispose of it properly, it will pile up and overtake your life. Maturity is achieved when a person accepts life as full of tension. – Joshua L. Liebman Stress is caused by being ‘here’ but wanting to be ‘there.’ – Eckhart Tolle How beautiful it is to do nothing, and then to rest afterward. – Spanish proverb Thank you for going through.Feel free to comment,criticise,share,like and if it’s  is worthy re blog.

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Can one survive without EGO ?

Ego, n. “A person’s sense of self-esteem or self-importance” Everyone of us have some amount of ego,it’s a fact. Let us accept it. And if somebody claims that he or she is does not have ego,it’s certain that this person is lying. Anyone who’s successful, whatever way it has been achieved has a certain amount of ego and it is the truth. Ego is the illusion created by our thoughts and none of us are immune from it. Even persons with humility,on occassion succumbs to Ego. “True humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less.” – C.S. Lewis Dear friends what is your take on EGO ? Talent is God-given, be humble.                                                                                           Fame is man-given, be thankful.                                                                                   Conceit is self-given, be careful. John Wooden

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Happiness is……….

1.The secret of happiness is not in doing what one likes,but in liking what one does. ‘James M. Barrie’ 2.Doing what you like is freedom.Liking what you do is happiness. ‘Frank Tyger’ 3.There is no way to happiness.Happiness is the way. ‘Thich Nhat Nanh’ 4. People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be. ‘Abraham Lincoln’. […]

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Peace of mind vs Piece of mind

piece of mind

      What is peace of mind ? Peace of mind is…. inner tranquility or inner peace,absence of turmoil,having sound sleep in the night. What about piece of mind ? Piece of mind is … expression of somebody’s thoughts,rather some kind of advice or opinion. Which category you belong? Are you the one,willing to give peace of mind not […]

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