Is life beautiful ?

Is life beautiful ?

We always think that life is harsh and one can easily describe life’s harsh truths. Its better if we remind ourselves that life is beautiful,can definitely give hope,improve the quality of life we are leading. Can not life be beautiful ? Please remember that ‘Beauty’ can mean different things to different people.But the common factor remains same,that,there is something positive […]

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Does Age difference matter in Friendship ?

does age matters in friendship ?

‘We need old friends to help us grow old and new friends help us stay young”Letty Cottin Pogrebin It’s true that peers share common interest because they are in the same age group,but still you can share interests with people who are younger or older than you.In fact you can learn a lot from different kinds of conversations. Personally I […]

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Are you the ‘Difficult Spouse’ ?

  It’s 5.4 minute read. If you are a wife or husband and on many occasions you think you are disappointed because of the other…..and think the other is the ‘difficult spouse’…. then this article is for you. I am thankful to you if you felt there is something wrong in either of the parties and the mistake can be rectified easily. There are two types of marriages.( Marriages are made in heaven.Is itn’t ?) 1.Love marriage 2.Arranged marriage ( In most of the eastern countries ) Irrespective of the type of marriage,both the man and the woman of his love have to adjust with each other in order to be compatible. In fact, post marriage life is full of challenges and it exposes the couple to myriads of issues. But we all know the truth. One day or other both the man & the woman have to face unpleasant situation of opposing & different opinions and views, in matters of their day-to-day ‘living together’ The reality of the so-called colorful future has to show its fangs,since it is waiting to strike first ! Once the misunderstanding happens and prolongs….There are two options available You decided you are not going to adjust at all…then Apply for divorce and probably matter can come to end to the mutual satisfaction,and thus ending the very discussion I am trying to make. If the above choice is not the option due to so many […]

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Can you define Love ?

Why on Earth each person gives a contradictory meaning to such a  simple word called ‘ L O V E ‘   Some negative thoughts  “Love sucks.Sometimes it feels good.Sometimes it’s just another way to bleed”. Laurell K Hamilton “Love is a trap,when it appears we only see its light,not its shadows”. Paul Coelho Love is the word used to label […]

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Soulmate- True or Just an Illusion ?

It’s a 3.9 minute read. I am giving you Seven theories regarding the topic ‘SOULMATE’. Which one as per you is more accurate and near to truth and a fact indeed ? Or you feel it’s unrealistic and falsehood and just bogus  and even fraud committed on the gulliable!! Please guide me. I am as confused as anybody else. 1.Soulmate does not exist.It’s for professional POETS,who love to exaggerate the existence of Soulmate in their poetic style,laced with honey traces. 2.Soulmate exists.Yes.But only in ones dreams ! It’s impossible in this world to have a mirror image personality (100% ),scientifically ! 3.Soulmates do exist because of synchronisation of the individual’s flaws. “I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.” ―Lisa Kleypas Source-thoughtcatalog.com 4.The following theory stresses the point that age is immaterial in soulmate relationship. “A soulmate is not necessarily a lover or your life partner. A soulmate can be anyone in your life who has a great positive influence on you. Every single person that we deem to be “significant” truly is exactly that, for their vibrational […]

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Happy mother’s day

Wishing all mothers in the world ‘ A happy mother’s day ‘ “A mother understands what a child does not say.” Jewish proverb “We are born of love; love is our mother.” Rumi “A mother is she who can take the place of all others but whose place no one else can take.” Cardinal Mermillod “An ounce of mother is […]

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Friendship vs Love…which triumps ?

It’s 2.2 minute read “Sometimes,in life there really are bonds formed that can never be broken. Sometimes you really can find that one person who will stand by you no matter what. May be you will find it in a spouse and celebrate it with your dream wedding. But there’s also the chance that the person you can count on […]

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Miracle

Do you believe in , that true friendship is possible in the real life ?? Wasn’t friendship its own miracle,the finding of another person who made the entire lonely world seem somehow less lonely Hanya Yanagihara Moving together  and interacting with our  friends in our circle ( offline ) ….at least we know each other by face,by real name,our habits,our […]

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Love the unlovely

Love the unlovely. There is no greatness in you if you show your love only to the lovely . Let your love be uniform, both to the lovely & unlovely. Let love overlook other’s faults and shortcomings, always believe the best about them,and never lose hope for them. Thank you Philosophy Through Photography   Credits Pixabay,Auroraproductions

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Stressed? Think of Romantic Friendship !

Romantic Friendship

This is a 2.7 minute read.Please proceed if you can spare this much time. Before I start the discussion,it’s better we know the definition of ‘Romantic Friendship’. According to ‘Wikipedia’ “A romantic friendship, passionate friendship, or affectionate friendship is a very close but typically non-sexual relationship between friends,often involving a degree of physical closeness beyond that which is common in the […]

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Hardest thing in this world is……

I know you are tempted to say ‘Diamond’ ! True to some extent.Diamonds symbolize Status,Love,strength( hardness), beauty and Prosperity. It’s also interesting to know why  60 th wedding anniversary is called ‘Diamond Anniversary’ ?.It’s because of longevity of the couple’s relationship both in times of happiness and difficulties and the marriage surviving this long of 60 yrs without break up in relationship, a toughest job indeed in the modern day philosophy of ‘divorce’ at the drop of a hat. Do you want to know which is tougher than Diamond ? “True Love and Loyal Friends are two of the toughest things to find.”   Unknown Whichever part of the world you are in ,remember,never underestimate the power of true love and loyal friends. Be a true lover & don’t lose loyal friends. To all my WP friends… Happy Valentine’s Day  Thank you Philosophy Through Photography  

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Global warming of different kind

Global warming of different kind

“Warm weather fosters growth.Cold weather destroys it.Thus a man with an unsympathetic temperament has scanty joy:But a man with a warm and friendly heart is overflowing with blessings,and his beneficence will extend to posterity.” Hung Tzu-Ch’Eng   “Even more important than the warmth and affection we receive,is the warmth and affection we give,It is by giving warmth and affection,by having […]

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Long distance talk

Long distance talk

This leads me to a Question,which I am unable to decide ! Long distance relationship or short distance relationship……which is better & why ?  (couples & Friends) Share your thoughts. Thank you .  Philosophy Through Photography Image source © Dr.Sridhar,2019 All Rights Reserved

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Bullshit In the guise of True Love !

Bullshit in the guise of true love.

See this clip(117 seconds) before you proceed further. Does true love exist? I dare ! Rabbi Dr.Abraham calls’Love out of selfishness’ is a Fish Love.He says”Fish love is poisoning marriages,damaging homes and breaking hearts”. Sex,money or power will decide the intensity of the so-called true love. you may blast me that ….I am,atrocious,stone-hearted, silly, crazy, cruel,disgusting and disappointing but I […]

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Love is scarce- Really ?

The only thing we never get enough of is love; and the only thing we never give enough of is love. ― Henry Miller Why this happens ? We all  think that, Love means romance.But it is not so. There are 7 types of love. Storge- Familial love Phila-friendship ( shared goodwill) Eros-Sexual or passionate love Agape-Universal love ( unconditional love) Ludus-Playful or uncommitted love Pragma- Long term love ( married people) Philautia-self love ( healthy or unhealthy) ( source Psychologytoday.com, Quora) My discussion is limited to the married couple. Think for a second. Can you tell  the difference between ‘school and life‘ ? ” In school you are taught a lesson and then given a test.   In life,you are given a test,that teaches you the lesson” Tom Bodett So what I am trying to tell is Life gives an opportunity to learn lessons  from our experience, in this situation….. day to day problems faced by the couple,thus making them more accommodating,understanding and helpful to each other. Thus we can become wiser by experiencing these experiences. But here is the hitch. The problem comes in the unknown form of ‘E G O ‘ nullifying all the benefits of life’s lessons,which we learn over the course of time. Why can’t we make an attempt to look into this ? Why can not we prevent this disease before it strikes us ? When we are able to manage life style diseases […]

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Writing on the ‘note’

writing on the currency notes,currency notes,Indian rupee

One minute read “Don’t be afraid to express love to those who you love. Because sometimes loving is not enough. We have to express it.” Anurag Prakash Ray. What a ‘Silent’ way to express ones love ! As seen in the above photographs, the persons have expressed their love in a silent way by writing on the currency notes. Looks […]

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