Life: a breathing spell

As long as there is life,the problems never end

Life and problems go together,but there is a solution….. problems end  the moment the life ceases to exist ! Life is divided into horrible and the miserable Woody Allen There are no winners in life,only survivors Merryls first corollary Life is essentially an endless series of problems.The solution to one problem is merely the creation of another Mark Manson Most […]

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Five Bitter Truths About Life You Can’t Avoid — Nerdome

https://medium.com/ Adam Bergen Monday Views Instagram Life inevitably slaps you in the face. You can try as long as you possibly can to avoid it, but it’s coming. It sounds depressing, because some people consider it such. In fact, there’s a reason depression exists — life becomes overwhelming and hard to manage. And I know […] via Five Bitter Truths About Life You Can’t Avoid — Nerdome

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Why happiness eluding you ?

Is happiness eluding you ?

“Happiness is like a butterfly,the more you chase it, it will elude you,but if you turn your attention to other things,it will come and sit softly on your shoulder” Thoreau In spite of inventions of more entertainments / pleasures ,still human being carves for more happiness. Why happiness eludes ? Simple. We analyse happiness instead of experiencing it. And we […]

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Life always throws a curve ball !!

“You can not change how others treat you.( sometimes they won’t be so loving ).But you can change how you react to it all.( Be sure how you respond in a way which shows love for yourself-and don’t beat yourself upover how they are beating upon you ). Be good to yourself -even when others aren’t.( Especially when others aren’t)” Karen Salmansohn “Your life is a reflection of the choices you make.Even events you don’t control reflect your choice in how you respond.If you want to improve your life,improve how you make choices.Try to mindfully make decisions which are inspired by open-mindedness,high integrity,and long-term thinking.”    Karen Salmansohn “Be a gift to everyone who enters your life.Be careful not to enter another’s life if you can not be a gift.You always are the gift-Yet sometimes you don’t let yourself know that .When some one enters your life unexpectedly,look for the gift that person brings.”  Neal Donald Walsch “You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. In fact, it may be necessary to encounter the defeats, so you can know who you are, what you can rise from, and how you can still come out of it.”  Maya Angelou. Thank you Philosophy Through Photography Image source © Dr.Sridhar,2019 All Rights Reserved credits-notsalmon.com    

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“Do not take life too seriously. You will never get out of it alive”. Elbert Hubbard

“If the problem can be solved why worry?  If the problem cannot be solved worrying will do you no good.”  Santideva. Why you think there is a constant pressure on your life ? Is it possible to let the steam out and lead a better  peaceful and contended  life ? What are all the ways you think you are getting pressure even on your routine day-to-day life ? Let us discuss. Family pressure You want to do something you like but the family members advising you otherwise.You have two choices,either go ahead and do what you wanted to do or listen to your family. The emotional tactic adopted by family members is crucial in influencing your thoughts. Solution– Since you are grown up ,you can take your own well-meant decisions. I feel emotional pressure by the family members is a kind of  ‘blackmail’. Social pressure It is defined as the influence that is exerted on a person or groups.It can be argument,persuasion and conformity and demands. Solution- Develop self confidence and mingle with people who accept you as you are.  ( Like minded ) Peer Pressure Peer pressure is the direct influence on people by peers, or the effect on an individual who gets encouraged to follow their peers by changing their attitudes, values or behaviors to conform to those of the influencing group or individual. You will fall prey to peer pressure because you want to fit in .The […]

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Soar High

soar high

We all know that Life is not a fairytale that ends Happily ever after. Life is composed of ups and downs. There are several situations where we plan to the precision but when our wish is not coming true, we as humans get devastated. And in some situations just reverse-what ever you wished can happen to your surprise. “Life has […]

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Oh Life ! My Dear Life !

 “Every morning in Africa a gazelle wakes up. It knows it must move faster than the lion or it will not survive. Every morning a lion wakes up and it knows it must move faster than the slowest gazelle or it will starve. It doesn’t matter if you are the lion or the gazelle, when the sun comes up, you better be moving.” Maurice Greene (attributed to Roger Bannister shortly after running the first sub-4 m) How do you feel about modern life of human beings? Any different from animals? As human beings we don’t literally do running, but Are we not into the  ‘Rat race’ to ‘Survive’ at the cost of ‘peace of mind’ & ‘lack of Sleep’? I am trapped into the rat race…which doesn’t seem to end,neither I am able to come out,   in the middle of the race because there are no referees to allow this. Please Give me your thoughts on how we are different and busy clinging to our lives,without any purpose.  

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Life is hard ….and….

1.When I hear somebody say ‘Life is hard’, I am always tempted to ask ‘compared to what’ ?-     Sydney J Harris 2.Life is hard. After all, it kills you. – Katharine Hepburn 3.Life is hard,but not impossible. –Positive life 4.“Don’t pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one.” –Bruce Lee 5.“I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders.” – Jewish Proverb 6.“Be miserable. Or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it’s always your choice.” – Wayne Dyer 7.No matter how bad things are, you can always make things worse. Randy Pausch, The Last Lecture 8.The hardest thing to find in life is happiness – money is only hard to find because it gets wasted trying to find happiness                                                                                                      – funny quotes.com 9.I focused so hard on what I wanted, that I lost sight of what I deserved.               Curiano.com

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