Is life beautiful ?

Is life beautiful ?

We always think that life is harsh and one can easily describe life’s harsh truths. Its better if we remind ourselves that life is beautiful,can definitely give hope,improve the quality of life we are leading. Can not life be beautiful ? Please remember that ‘Beauty’ can mean different things to different people.But the common factor remains same,that,there is something positive […]

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Secret of my long married life……

Let us not be serious all the time of the whole day ! Have some fun ! Remember today is Friday ! Some people ask the secret of our long marriage.We take time to go the restaurant two times a week.A little candle light ,dinner,soft music,and dancing.She goes on Tuesdays,I go on Fridays.    Henry Youngman Thank God it’s Friday […]

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One can Forgive but can one erase the bitterness ?

Technically majority of us try to forgive, but 100 % of us forget that,we have forgiven, and somewhere the unpleasantness, haunts us for sometime, after all we are human beings !! Some quotes……. “Forgive other,not because thy deserve forgiveness,but because you deserve peace.” Jonathan Lockwood Huie “It’s not an easy journey, to get to a place where you forgive people.But […]

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Right Connections

Prayer is connecting with God,uploading your love,requests and thanks, downloading His love and answers. Do you make an attempt to connect to God everyday or you are too busy and try to connect him only when you face troubles in your life ? Thank you Philosophy Through Photography Credits,pixabay,aurora productions      

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Lock Up Mentalities

It is such a waste, when people are alienated (friends, relatives, wife & husband,Couples or business partners etc.) from each other for days, months or even years,….all over some misunderstanding…that could have been sorted out sooner or even one of the parties had shown more Humility or Understanding. Thank you Philosophy Through Photography PixabayInspiration‘auroraproductions’

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Soar High

soar high

We all know that Life is not a fairytale that ends Happily ever after. Life is composed of ups and downs. There are several situations where we plan to the precision but when our wish is not coming true, we as humans get devastated. And in some situations just reverse-what ever you wished can happen to your surprise. “Life has […]

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So thankful

Be thankful, For if we did not learn a lot to-day, At least we learned a little, And if we did not learn a little, At least we did not get sick, And if we got sick, At least we didn’t die, So be thankful. Gautama Buddha Thank you Philosophy through Photography Pixabay

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International Day of Happiness March 20 th

What is International Day of Happiness ? It’s a day to be happy, of course! Of course ,as humans we try our level best to be happy through out our lives. But have we at any time remember somebody,who keep us happy most of the times? Do we even make an attempt to recognize such people ? The moment your happiness is over…you tend to forget those responsible for your happiness ! I am fortunate that there is somebody who makes me happy,smile & laugh and I recognize this fact and I am thankful to this person .Of course these things can’t happen without Almighty’s blessings. Since 2013, the United Nations has celebrated the International Day of Happiness as a way to recognize the importance of happiness in the lives of people around the world. The United Nations invites each person of any age,plus every classroom,business and government to join in celebration of the International Day of Happiness Suppose no body is there for you to achieve happiness…what would you do ? The formula is  simple !! “Happiness equals to reality minus expectations”  Tom Magliozzi Thank you Philosophy Through Photography Credits-UN.org,pixabay

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Global warming of different kind

Global warming of different kind

“Warm weather fosters growth.Cold weather destroys it.Thus a man with an unsympathetic temperament has scanty joy:But a man with a warm and friendly heart is overflowing with blessings,and his beneficence will extend to posterity.” Hung Tzu-Ch’Eng   “Even more important than the warmth and affection we receive,is the warmth and affection we give,It is by giving warmth and affection,by having […]

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Love is scarce- Really ?

The only thing we never get enough of is love; and the only thing we never give enough of is love. ― Henry Miller Why this happens ? We all  think that, Love means romance.But it is not so. There are 7 types of love. Storge- Familial love Phila-friendship ( shared goodwill) Eros-Sexual or passionate love Agape-Universal love ( unconditional love) Ludus-Playful or uncommitted love Pragma- Long term love ( married people) Philautia-self love ( healthy or unhealthy) ( source Psychologytoday.com, Quora) My discussion is limited to the married couple. Think for a second. Can you tell  the difference between ‘school and life‘ ? ” In school you are taught a lesson and then given a test.   In life,you are given a test,that teaches you the lesson” Tom Bodett So what I am trying to tell is Life gives an opportunity to learn lessons  from our experience, in this situation….. day to day problems faced by the couple,thus making them more accommodating,understanding and helpful to each other. Thus we can become wiser by experiencing these experiences. But here is the hitch. The problem comes in the unknown form of ‘E G O ‘ nullifying all the benefits of life’s lessons,which we learn over the course of time. Why can’t we make an attempt to look into this ? Why can not we prevent this disease before it strikes us ? When we are able to manage life style diseases […]

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Are you the ‘Difficult Spouse’ ?

Real relationships are not perfect and perfect relationships are not real !! If you are a wife or husband and on many occasions you think you are disappointed because of the other…..and think the other is the ‘difficult spouse’…. then this article is for you. I am thankful to you if you felt there is something wrong in either of the parties and the mistake can be rectified easily. There are two types of marriages.( Marriages are made in heaven.Is itn’t ?) 1.Love marriage 2.Arranged marriage ( In most of the eastern countries ) Irrespective of the type of marriage,both the man and the woman of his love have to adjust with each other in order to be compatible. In fact, post marriage life is full of challenges and it exposes the couple to myriads of issues. But we all know the truth. One day or other both the man & the woman have to face unpleasant situation of opposing & different opinions and views, in matters of their day-to-day ‘living together’ The reality of the so-called colourful future has to show its fangs,since it is waiting to strike first ! Once the misunderstanding happens and prolongs….There are two options available You decided you are not going to adjust at all...then Apply for divorce and probably matter can come to end to the mutual satisfaction,and thus ending the very discussion I am trying to make. If the above choice is […]

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Happy Universal Chidren’s day-Nov 20 th

While we try to teach our children all about life, our children teach us what life is all about. – Angela Schwindt United Nations Universal Children’s Day was established in 1954 and is celebrated on November 20th each year to promote international togetherness, awareness among children worldwide, and improving children’s welfare. The theme is #Goblue Image-Pixabay

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Are you a ‘wanting’ or a ‘giving’ personality?

First let us talk about ‘Wanting’ personalities- More money ,more popularity,more pleasure,more likes in social media,more than 1000 friends/follows in social media,more achievements ( though positive ),more power one can go on… and remember, we are never tired of ‘wanting’ more.This has become a human trait. Why you want more and more …..and even more ? Probably you fear the […]

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Tension Free…. Stress Free…you think it’s a distant dream ?

As you are busy with fast paced life , you are left with lots of tension,anxiety resulting in stress.you start thinking as if all the problems happening to you only. Just relax.All of are undergoing the same, at one time or the other.You can neither run away from the problems, nor start dreaming of positive thoughts,The two popular advices..easier said than followed… Just listen to the quotes by unknown and known wise souls. If a problem can be solved, no need to worry about it. If a problem cannot be solved what is the use of worrying? Worries and tensions are like birds , We cannot stop them from flying near us, But we can certainly stop them from making a nest in our mind. The tension you feel from one person may be the tension you are causing for another. Worrying does not take away tomorrow’s troubles. It takes away today’s peace. Stress is the trash of modern life we all generate it, but if you don’t dispose of it properly, it will pile up and overtake your life. Maturity is achieved when a person accepts life as full of tension. – Joshua L. Liebman Stress is caused by being ‘here’ but wanting to be ‘there.’ – Eckhart Tolle How beautiful it is to do nothing, and then to rest afterward. – Spanish proverb Thank you for going through.Feel free to comment,criticise,share,like and if it’s  is worthy re blog.

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