Honestly speaking……….

Let us be frank. Let us be even brutally frank. Is it possible to be honest 100%, throughout in your life ? Are we honest with ourselves, or with our friends ? Are we honest in our business or dealings ? Are we honest with our colleagues ? Are we honest with our spouses and children ? Can you count the number of times,you lied so far ? We lie to our children when they are, say between 2 to 7 yrs  that storks bring children ,Tooth Fairy or Father Christmas ,or telling a person on death bed not to worry and that he/she going to live longer etc.( of course with good intention to encourage the person)…just a few examples we continue to lie each and every day to others, depending upon the situations and circumstances.This is a kind of ‘Escapism’ or ‘Giving Excuses’ Many a time we lie because we don’t want to embarrass. You may also lie so as not to hurt others or may lie to get the things done. What about ‘plagiarism’ ? So lying is part and parcel of our life and you can’t separate the two. Honesty hence not necessarily be the best policy, in certain situations. What is your take  ? Please share your views. “No such thing as a man willing to be honest-that would be like a blind man willing to see”    F.Scott Fitzgerald image -pixabay

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Key to ‘successful failure’

Key to failure,pleasing,

Key to failure “I don’t know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody” ‘unknown’ First of all I do not understand why on the earth one has to go on and on……pleasing each and every one ! The fact is… even on many occasions you can’t please your own kith & Kin. “Trying […]

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Tension Free…. Stress Free…you think it’s a distant dream ?

As you are busy with fast paced life , you are left with lots of tension,anxiety resulting in stress.you start thinking as if all the problems happening to you only. Just relax.All of are undergoing the same, at one time or the other.You can neither run away from the problems, nor start dreaming of positive thoughts,The two popular advices..easier said than followed… Just listen to the quotes by unknown and known wise souls. If a problem can be solved, no need to worry about it. If a problem cannot be solved what is the use of worrying? Worries and tensions are like birds , We cannot stop them from flying near us, But we can certainly stop them from making a nest in our mind. The tension you feel from one person may be the tension you are causing for another. Worrying does not take away tomorrow’s troubles. It takes away today’s peace. Stress is the trash of modern life we all generate it, but if you don’t dispose of it properly, it will pile up and overtake your life. Maturity is achieved when a person accepts life as full of tension. – Joshua L. Liebman Stress is caused by being ‘here’ but wanting to be ‘there.’ – Eckhart Tolle How beautiful it is to do nothing, and then to rest afterward. – Spanish proverb Thank you for going through.Feel free to comment,criticise,share,like and if it’s  is worthy re blog.

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