Five Bitter Truths About Life You Can’t Avoid — Nerdome

https://medium.com/ Adam Bergen Monday Views Instagram Life inevitably slaps you in the face. You can try as long as you possibly can to avoid it, but it’s coming. It sounds depressing, because some people consider it such. In fact, there’s a reason depression exists — life becomes overwhelming and hard to manage. And I know […] via Five Bitter Truths About Life You Can’t Avoid — Nerdome

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When it comes to advice,I’m a Giver

We give advice by the bucket, but take it by the grain. William R Alger quotes The advice I would give to someone is to not take anyone’s advice. Eddie Murphy Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn’t. Erica Jong No one can give you better advice than yourself.  Marcus Tullius Cicero Don’t offer me advice; give me money. Spanish Proverb Never give advice in a crowd.  Pope Paul VI If I were asked to give what I consider the single most useful bit of advice for all humanity it would be this: Expect trouble as an inevitable part of life and when it comes, hold you head high, look it squarely in eye and say, ‘I will be bigger than you. You cannot defeat me. Ann Landers At the end ………….                                                                                                                                          Thanking you Philosophy Through Photography   Credits-Title quote-unknown,pixabay.    

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Secret of my long married life……

Let us not be serious all the time of the whole day ! Have some fun ! Remember today is Friday ! Some people ask the secret of our long marriage.We take time to go the restaurant two times a week.A little candle light ,dinner,soft music,and dancing.She goes on Tuesdays,I go on Fridays.    Henry Youngman Thank God it’s Friday […]

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Why even thick friends go apart over a period of time ?

Anybody can give lecture about value/virtues of friendship as said below. “Friendship plays a key role to emotional growth and mental health.It boosts your happiness. Talking to a friend lowers blood pressure and reduces the risk of depression. Hugging,listening,sharing connecting and celebrating life with friends decreases stress. That is what friends are for.They help you live longer”.      Pinterest […]

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Harsh truths of life

1.Money is everything.You are nothing without money. 2. The world is not against you.It just does not care. 3. You can’t please every one. 4. All of us are going to die,some of us early and some other late. 5. Never take life too seriously. 6. To day is your day.Make best use of it or else it is too […]

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Are you the ‘Difficult Spouse’ ?

  It’s 5.4 minute read. If you are a wife or husband and on many occasions you think you are disappointed because of the other…..and think the other is the ‘difficult spouse’…. then this article is for you. I am thankful to you if you felt there is something wrong in either of the parties and the mistake can be rectified easily. There are two types of marriages.( Marriages are made in heaven.Is itn’t ?) 1.Love marriage 2.Arranged marriage ( In most of the eastern countries ) Irrespective of the type of marriage,both the man and the woman of his love have to adjust with each other in order to be compatible. In fact, post marriage life is full of challenges and it exposes the couple to myriads of issues. But we all know the truth. One day or other both the man & the woman have to face unpleasant situation of opposing & different opinions and views, in matters of their day-to-day ‘living together’ The reality of the so-called colorful future has to show its fangs,since it is waiting to strike first ! Once the misunderstanding happens and prolongs….There are two options available You decided you are not going to adjust at all…then Apply for divorce and probably matter can come to end to the mutual satisfaction,and thus ending the very discussion I am trying to make. If the above choice is not the option due to so many […]

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“Do not take life too seriously. You will never get out of it alive”. Elbert Hubbard

“If the problem can be solved why worry?  If the problem cannot be solved worrying will do you no good.”  Santideva. Why you think there is a constant pressure on your life ? Is it possible to let the steam out and lead a better  peaceful and contended  life ? What are all the ways you think you are getting pressure even on your routine day-to-day life ? Let us discuss. Family pressure You want to do something you like but the family members advising you otherwise.You have two choices,either go ahead and do what you wanted to do or listen to your family. The emotional tactic adopted by family members is crucial in influencing your thoughts. Solution– Since you are grown up ,you can take your own well-meant decisions. I feel emotional pressure by the family members is a kind of  ‘blackmail’. Social pressure It is defined as the influence that is exerted on a person or groups.It can be argument,persuasion and conformity and demands. Solution- Develop self confidence and mingle with people who accept you as you are.  ( Like minded ) Peer Pressure Peer pressure is the direct influence on people by peers, or the effect on an individual who gets encouraged to follow their peers by changing their attitudes, values or behaviors to conform to those of the influencing group or individual. You will fall prey to peer pressure because you want to fit in .The […]

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Ego=bubble

Ego bubble

Your ego may be just a soap bubble.May be for a few seconds it will remain,rising higher in the air. Perhaps for a few seconds it may have a rainbow,but is only for a few seconds.In this infinite & eternal existence your egos go on bursting every moment. It is better not to have any attachment with soap bubbles ‘ […]

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Anger is one letter short of Danger

Anger is defined as “a string feeling of annoyance,displeasure or hostility.” Holding on to Anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. Buddha I am not  here giving  the various reasons as to why one becomes angry or the types of anger. All that I wish is to follow the following quote whenever  you become angry. […]

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Right Connections

Prayer is connecting with God,uploading your love,requests and thanks, downloading His love and answers. Do you make an attempt to connect to God everyday or you are too busy and try to connect him only when you face troubles in your life ? Thank you Philosophy Through Photography Credits,pixabay,aurora productions      

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Setting the example

If you set the right example for your children during their formative years,those bonds of love and respect will be unbreakable. And your children will grow into adults,whom you can be proud of. Are you grateful to your parents ? Thank you Philosophy Through Photography Credits & Inspiration.pixabay, auroraproductions.

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The gift Of Friendship

It’s 3.3 minute read. Don’t you agree with me that True friendship is difficult since finding a true friend is the hardest. ” A friend is some one who understands your past,believe in your future….accepts you to-day the way you are “. Unknown We may not realize the value of friendship until the time it is given when it is […]

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Lock Up Mentalities

It is such a waste, when people are alienated (friends, relatives, wife & husband,Couples or business partners etc.) from each other for days, months or even years,….all over some misunderstanding…that could have been sorted out sooner or even one of the parties had shown more Humility or Understanding. Thank you Philosophy Through Photography PixabayInspiration‘auroraproductions’

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Soar High

soar high

We all know that Life is not a fairytale that ends Happily ever after. Life is composed of ups and downs. There are several situations where we plan to the precision but when our wish is not coming true, we as humans get devastated. And in some situations just reverse-what ever you wished can happen to your surprise. “Life has […]

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Friendship vs Love…which triumps ?

It’s 2.2 minute read “Sometimes,in life there really are bonds formed that can never be broken. Sometimes you really can find that one person who will stand by you no matter what. May be you will find it in a spouse and celebrate it with your dream wedding. But there’s also the chance that the person you can count on […]

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Can you survive loneliness ? ?

Deep and lasting friendships don’t  just happen.They require focus,energy,patience,and skill to form and maintain. Good friends will enhance your journey through life in more ways than you can imagine. Invest in a few. You don’t need a lot. This is one of those cases when quality is more important than quantity. unknown Thank you Philosophy Through Photography Pixabay.

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Miracle

Do you believe in , that true friendship is possible in the real life ?? Wasn’t friendship its own miracle,the finding of another person who made the entire lonely world seem somehow less lonely Hanya Yanagihara Moving together  and interacting with our  friends in our circle ( offline ) ….at least we know each other by face,by real name,our habits,our […]

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So thankful

Be thankful, For if we did not learn a lot to-day, At least we learned a little, And if we did not learn a little, At least we did not get sick, And if we got sick, At least we didn’t die, So be thankful. Gautama Buddha Thank you Philosophy through Photography Pixabay

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The Closer….. the Better

Closer the better

What is the toughest job on earth ? Guess and tell me. I am sure you can not. Googling gives you billion answers in nanosecond ! Nothing to compare as to what I am going to tell !!! If you are eager to know , just answer the following question. How to tell some one that their breath stinks without […]

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How you are going to sleep to night ?

How you are going to sleep to-night ? Is it a sound sleep or disturbed sleep or deep sleep because of sedatives/tranquilizer/excess alcohol ? “The best way to keep ourselves and our lives in good shape is to empty our minds of all worries, anxieties, tensions and negative thoughts before we retire for the night.We can then begin the new […]

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Love the unlovely

Love the unlovely. There is no greatness in you if you show your love only to the lovely . Let your love be uniform, both to the lovely & unlovely. Let love overlook other’s faults and shortcomings, always believe the best about them,and never lose hope for them. Thank you Philosophy Through Photography   Credits Pixabay,Auroraproductions

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Are you sad ?

“It is popularly believed that sadness is due to certain things that happens to us. The cause of sadness is often traced to misfortune,hardship or humiliation In truth all sadness is from within. Sadness is the result of our inner attitude towards outer happenings”. Dada J P Vaswani The reasons for sadness are many. And all of you know. Reaction to sadness varies from person to person and depends on how sensitive the person is. Sadness can break the person completely and even push into suicidal tendencies. Some cry to get relief,some indulge in self harming,some manage the show by fake smile,but still many are unable to come out of the feelings. We all should realise that nothing is permanent in this life. Change is the way of life. Whether it is sadness or happiness it won’t last forever and comes alternatively and this is nature’s law. Every thing changes over the time and time is the greatest healer! Whatever may be the reason for sadness…never keep the emotions inside. Remember it’s like a time bomb. What is the solution ? Yes solution available. A sad person needs another person who understands him/her 100% The sad person just needs this person on whom he/she can lean on and cry their hearts out. Believe me the relief is instant ! Dear friends,please share your thoughts. Thank you Philosophy Through Photography Credits,inspiration, Pixabay quotesideas.com

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Stressed? Think of Romantic Friendship !

Romantic Friendship

This is a 2.7 minute read.Please proceed if you can spare this much time. Before I start the discussion,it’s better we know the definition of ‘Romantic Friendship’. According to ‘Wikipedia’ “A romantic friendship, passionate friendship, or affectionate friendship is a very close but typically non-sexual relationship between friends,often involving a degree of physical closeness beyond that which is common in the […]

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Booze Blues

    I told my wife that a husband is like a fine wine; he gets better with age. The next day, she locked me in the cellar.–coolfunnyquotes.com   A glass of beer shortens your life by one minute, a glass of wine by two minutes, and a day of work by seven to ten hours.   When I read […]

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Hardest thing in this world is……

I know you are tempted to say ‘Diamond’ ! True to some extent.Diamonds symbolize Status,Love,strength( hardness), beauty and Prosperity. It’s also interesting to know why  60 th wedding anniversary is called ‘Diamond Anniversary’ ?.It’s because of longevity of the couple’s relationship both in times of happiness and difficulties and the marriage surviving this long of 60 yrs without break up in relationship, a toughest job indeed in the modern day philosophy of ‘divorce’ at the drop of a hat. Do you want to know which is tougher than Diamond ? “True Love and Loyal Friends are two of the toughest things to find.”   Unknown Whichever part of the world you are in ,remember,never underestimate the power of true love and loyal friends. Be a true lover & don’t lose loyal friends. To all my WP friends… Happy Valentine’s Day  Thank you Philosophy Through Photography  

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How are you celebrating the Valentine’s day,this time ?

Valentine’s day is the day,when all over the world,LOVE is celebrated. It’s celebrated on 14 th February of every year. Just think for a second.Are we true to the spirit of Valentine’s day ? Is it necessary to wait for this day to express love ? Instead we can  show this love in every day of our life. Don’t you think true love is the one,which is beyond conditions ? True love should be forever supportive. Love should be constant both in times of happiness and sorrow. Of late, we have become busy in  showing off love ,instead of taking solemn pledge of Love ! And on the Valentine’s day,funnily we exaggerate our Love ! To show love you must buy something and this is  where industries are making a kill on this day,defeating the very purpose of Valentina day. I guess we are over rating the day ! Money, money,money,it’s so funny ! My take, Love never fails,instead people fail on love. “Love never dies a natural death.It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source.It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals.It dies if illness and wounds,It dies of weariness,of witherings,or tarnishings.” Anais Nin Thank you Philosophy Through Photography Credits-Pixabay,thoughtcatalog.com

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Global warming of different kind

Global warming of different kind

“Warm weather fosters growth.Cold weather destroys it.Thus a man with an unsympathetic temperament has scanty joy:But a man with a warm and friendly heart is overflowing with blessings,and his beneficence will extend to posterity.” Hung Tzu-Ch’Eng   “Even more important than the warmth and affection we receive,is the warmth and affection we give,It is by giving warmth and affection,by having […]

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World Cancer day 4 th Feb

  World cancer day is a day we should remember,It’s a day for taking action ! Cancer is a word.Not a sentence John Diamond This day is celebrated as World Cancer day,where in, the world becomes one,united to fight cancer epidemic. This day is a reminder and an attempt to bring an awareness of cancer,in terms of prevention,detection and treatment. […]

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Tongue-tasteic!

The tongue is a fantastic organ! You Use it for speech, taste and decorative/culture ( tongue piercing) It’s a strong arsenal in your body Tongue is a blessing and also your nemesis It can make the difference between life & death, joy & sorrow Can make or break the relationship Can sooth you or hurt you. With the same tongue […]

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? Gossip ? Conversation

What is your take ? Are these two gossiping or conversing ? World is the Wonderful place to live in … with a lot of problems disappearing…. If only we TALK to each other instead of ABOUT each other. Thank you  Philosophy Through Photography Image source © Dr.Sridhar,2019 All Rights Reserved  

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How long online friendship lasts ?

How long online frienship lasts ?

It’s a 4.5 minute read,if you have patience proceed.. Before we proceed further let us understand ‘friendship’. “Friendship is a best ship which can lead you on world tour”   unknown It takes roughly 200 hours to become best friends with someone,    according to science. Can you sustain it afterwards ? Say 6 months ? 1 yr…..3 yrs…..7 yrs…. […]

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Let’s not meet by accident !!

Let's not meet by accident !!

Have you visited India ? or planning to visit India ? Amazing traffic co-ordination among the Road users ! If you are really interested to know the traffic sense in India,read the  hilarious post.Click the link.  Funny article on Indian Traffic Thank you  philosophy Through Photography Image source © Dr.Sridhar,2019 All Rights Reserved

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Are you listening ?

Are you listening ?

You can agree with me or you can be wrong.              etcy.com It’s natural to think that you are right.But experience should teach you that sometimes you are not and that is wise to listen to others Thank you  Philosophy Through Photography   IS pixabay ,auroraproduction.com

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Tomorrow……Real or just a perception ??

Tomorrow....real or just perception??

Note-We all Live in Hope, but as you know Hope can have  either positive or negative outcome.Instead why can’t we just pray  that everything will end well and complete the day with a positive note?I request the readers to read the following with a positive orientation. Don’t  we live in permanent illusion of ‘Tomorrow’ ? Is not your mind telling […]

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