We all know that Life can never be ‘Instagram Perfect’.

But still, why do we all make our life miserable?

1. Because we worry about the unknown future.

2.We quarrel among ourselves about what happened yesterday, who is responsible etc and try to blame others or ourselves in the process. Yesterday is past….and nothing can be done, but still, we worry about the things that happened.

3. We forget to be happy today conveniently because we have something or other priorities to attend to.

Things don’t happen as per our wish, not readily waiting for us on the silver platter.

What about the quote”Good things come to those who wait”?

It is nothing but rubbish.

Life is never kind and it owes us nothing. There is no such thing called ‘Happy Life’

My point is that you have to ‘live’ at the moment and make your life ‘Happy’

“It’s not a case of finding the meaning of the moments, but giving the moments meaning”. Steven Redhe

This life is our own and it resonates how you want it to live.

If you want it to be miserable ..it’s the way it’s going to be for you. And sure, you are the loser.

Wise man’s advice

“You can frame a moment, But you can’t frame life” Armin Houman

Hope is good, no doubt it sustains us but then we should make attempts to make that hope a reality by living in the moment.

Then how not to feel miserable in life? My thoughts are simple.

1. Stop overthinking.

2. Stop judging others.

3. Remember, nothing is under your control. Just move along the flow

4. Avoid the mentality of a perfectionist.

5. Stop criticizing. You know only part of the story.

6. Avoid negative thoughts.

7. Most importantly stop comparing yourself.

Message

It is not the years in your life but the life in your years that counts Adlai Stevensony

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Take care, my friend.

Namaste 🙏🙏🙏

Mr Philo

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