Hello, is it me you’re looking for?


Are you hell-bent to express your love on Valentine’s day?

Today the world is celebrating Valentine’s Day.

And the day has become a commercialised holiday. Do you know the greatest weakness of human beings?

It’s the desire, and anything that humans desire is commercialised since the business industry is not lagging and you are responsible for this. Don’t pass on the buck.

You are not the one celebrating this event; instead, it is this commercial system.

The date planning business has become a gold mine and the latest attraction.

Whether you are a single, non-celebrating type or the one who wishes to express love… there is an item/place readily available!

Does Valentine’s Day remind you of a soulmate?

More than 300 books on soul mates are listed on Goodreads.

You might be wondering why we are suddenly talking about a “soulmate.”

Yes, my friend’s soulmate is linked to Valentine’s Day. Soulmate philosophy depends solely on LOVE

What exactly is a soulmate?

I am giving you Seven theories regarding the topic ‘SOULMATE’.

Which one as per you is more accurate and near to truth and a fact indeed?

Or you feel it’s unrealistic (limited concept) and falsehood and just bogus and even fraud committed on the gullible!!

Which one of the 7 theories is reasonable?

Have patience.

Don’t scroll fast and try to read till the end.

1. A soulmate does not exist.

It’s for professional POETS, who love to exaggerate the existence of Soulmates in their poetic style, laced with honey traces.

2. Soulmate exists.

Yes.But only in one’s dreams!

It’s impossible in this world to have a mirror image personality (100%), scientifically!

3. Soulmates do exist because of the synchronisation of the individual’s flaws.

A difficult proposition indeed!

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that very few times in your life if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.” Lisa Kleypas


4. The lengthy theory that follows, emphasises the idea that regardless of your relationship with the other person, anyone can become your soulmate and that age is irrelevant in soulmate relationships.

“A soulmate is not necessarily a lover or your life partner.

A soulmate can be anyone in your life who has a great positive influence on you.

Every single person that we deem to be “significant” truly is exactly that, for their vibrational essence is blending with ours and together we are creating unique energy.

It is believed that the soul radiates all about the physical body, what some refer to as an aura. When you connect with another person spiritually and become completely open and trusting with that individual, your two souls begin to flow together.

Should such a deep bond be formed, it is said you have found your soulmate.

We are all joined in an ancient and eternal union with humanity that cut across all barriers of time, convention, philosophy, and definition.

When you are blessed with a soulmate, you have arrived at that most sacred place: home. This is a place so sacred that you open up completely to your soulmate.

A soulmate can be a guru, a parent, a friend or your lover

Credits Kurian’s Soul-mate

Don’t you feel that this description is a bit gross?

5.“Someday, someone will walk into your life and make you realize, why it never worked out with anyone else” Unknown

The above quote gives, one some confidence, but One is not sure how long to wait, say 1 year,10 years,30 years,50 years, or till death. Waiting for the soulmate

6. Twin Flames

Fantasy again!

Twin flames are defined as mirror images of each other.

It is said twin flames have one soul divided into two bodies.

Some say the twin flames description is exclusively limited to romantic relationships, unlike soul mates.

Even they go to the extent of saying that Twin flames have physical, mental, spiritual, and emotional connections.

“People who are meant to be together will always find their way back to each other. They might take detours in life, but they are never lost.” Christina Silverio

Is this possible?

7. Finally, you have another interesting theory that stresses that you just sit where you belong and your soulmate reaches you at the time when you are ready. (Wow! patience, patience and patience!!)

And in this situation, one is not sure at what time one is said to be ready!

“You are not supposed to go out and find Love. Love will find you when you are ready.” Suzy Kassem

Can soul-mate become sour-mate?

Yes. It’s possible.

My friend, soulmate is just a fancy description to fool you and me.

Simply it’s the philosophy of love. While human relationships change, the meaning of love remains the same.

And the very meaning of love has lost its glory!

So, my friends, what are your thoughts on this subject?


Love and relationship are always a mystery.

Try not to unravel.

Thank you for your visit.

Take care, my friend.

Namaste 🙏🙏🙏

Mr Philo

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Some part of this topic is a repost from my earlier article.


4 thoughts on “Hello, is it me you’re looking for?

  1. I’ve never really believed your soulmate, if we have one, has to be a romantic relationship – I’m more drawn to the idea that this is someone you connect with on a deep level and more likely to be a friend – someone you really identify with, and they identify with you. Its even better where the two come together in the one person. I’ve seen too many couples who are together but aren’t friends with each other – to me that’s sad

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