Dishevel defines Dishevel as…to let down, as hair, or wear, or let hang in loose disorder, as clothing.

To cause untidiness and disarray.

Make a person’s cloth or hair untidy.

“Interviewer: ‘So Frank, you have long hair. Does that make you a woman?’ / Frank Zappa: ‘You have a wooden leg. Does that make you a table?” (Frank Zappa)

Who can decide the hairstyle of an individual?

It’s the individual or the Hairstylists or anybody? And whose choice do you love?

Why should you depend on somebody for everything including your hairstyle?

Why should you criticize others’ way of dressing etc?

Can’t’ you be what you are?

And who am I to tell this? But I know what and where your problem is.

Proceed if you are interested to know.

Shall I reveal the unasked truth?

“There will be those who love you for your hair and those who love the beauty of your mind and those who adore the warmth of your heart. but there will be those who will leave you for not conforming to their type of hair, mind, and heart. And there will be those who will live/die to see your bad hair days, derailed mind, and a broken heart. but what matters most is Who You Are” Goitsemang Mvula

The problem with you is that you always compare yourself with others.

Some said shaving the chest hair appears sexy. I don’t know. But I do know that it’s a painful process.

I can’t talk on anybody’s behalf.

Ultimately, it’s individual choice and taste.

And regrettably, the available choices making you go crazy!

Nobody is interested whether your hair is untidy, funny (in someone’s opinion), dirty, stylish, awkward, dry, wet or resembles a bird’s nest? (as long as others can’t experience the bad odour and infestation spilling)

The strange thing with you and me is that we all strive to have individuality by copying others. How can you call this a Unique identity?

Any message?

“Who cares what colour your hair or what shape your shape is? Who cares what religion you are or what language your language is? What is the colour of your heart? That is all that matters!” Mehmet Murat Ildan

I know you are not willing to listen.

It’s Ok.

And you are what you are and I am what I am! And we are unique!

Don’t take seriously. This post written on a lighter note!😃😃

Thank you for your visit.

Take care, my friend.

Namaste 🙏🙏🙏


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This post is part of Ragtag Daily prompt- DISHEVEL

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