Love means -Happiness or Suffering or both?


“To love is to suffer.

To avoid suffering one must not love.

But then one suffers from not loving.

Therefore, to love is to suffer; not to love is to suffer; to suffer is to suffer.

To be happy is to love. To be happy, then, is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy.

Therefore, to be happy one must love or love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness” Woody Allen

Are you confused?

Is too much happiness also suffering?

I know you don’t have an answer. Neither I have!

Is this not strange that the very word ‘L O V E’ makes some of us experience ‘Heaven’ and some other


How can L O V E have dual power…. i.e. adorable & destructive?

What is your take?

Have you ever suffered because of LOVE?

And you think it’s the biggest culprit??

Please share your thoughts.

Thank you for your visit.

Take care, my friend.

Namaste 🙏🙏🙏


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  13 comments for “Love means -Happiness or Suffering or both?

  1. mic
    January 10, 2022 at 9:15 pm

    👌👌👌👌✒📷🌹 both…I’m sure. Life loves balance … and it always adds on both sides. It was as if a candle was burning at both ends. We can only appreciate everything after lessons of protein storms in our own brains … and finally … what would be left of paradise without hell? Nothing.


  2. January 11, 2022 at 12:15 am

    The only thing I can say is that Woody Allen has always projected negativity. The photo is wonderful, though.

    Liked by 1 person

  3. January 11, 2022 at 7:50 am

    To love is to suffer! Can’t agree more than this!❤️

    Liked by 1 person

  4. January 11, 2022 at 11:24 am

    Suffering is everywhere, especially if you look for it. The joy of love is the best of antidote if you are lucky and it suffocates the suffering.

    Liked by 1 person

    • January 11, 2022 at 12:26 pm

      True my friend.
      Sadly the joy of love comes in flickers!
      Let the joy of love suffocate us!!
      We don’t mind.
      Thank you so much for your thoughts.


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