Is friendship a ‘fraud’ on people ?
Can friendship be forever ?
Friendship is said to be one of the best things to happen in ones life.
Every time you think of your friends, you remember the saying ‘A friend in need is a friend indeed’
There are many similar quotes & sayings about worthiness of being a Friend & how to maintain the friendship etc and the BFF philosophy.
Some even said friends are an extended family.
Do you really think friendship lasts life long ?
But what actually happens ?
Well…….We all have two worlds….Dream world & Real world.
In the Dream World
“Death is possible any time,
Love is possible some time,
Marriage is possible one time,
But real friend like you is possible once in a life time.” Unknown
Exaggeration at its peak ! Take it easy.
In the real world
The truth is
“I didn’t lose a friend.I just realized I never had one” Unknown
It’s hard to find a genuine friend in this world.Mark my word.
Why don’t you realize that friendship changes from time to time and year to year ? Best friends you had previous year may not be the same this year.
The best friend you have this year won’t be true friend in real sense.
The so called bond between the friends too changes in intensity as times flies.Friends owe you nothing.All of them are judgmental.
Then why you feel bad if you don’t have a permanent friend ?
You are better off as an introvert rather than disappointed and getting depressed and pondering what went wrong by whom,who broke the friendship first etc. etc.
Majority of your friends ignore your view point.Your friends make use of you to the extent you are useful to them.You are easily dispensable and thrown into the dust bin.
My feeling is 99% of the friendship is just show off ! Doesn’t serve any purpose and somewhere you feel good without friends.At least you can be at peace.
Friends don’t bring you the’Feel good’ instead bring you anger,hatred,jealous,frustration and depression.
“There is some self interest behind every friendship.There is no friendship without self interest.This is a bitter truth“. Chanakya.
What is your experience, my friend ?
Don’t you agree that the idea of friend and friendship is rubbish since soon we all get disappointed as majority show their true colors and we have to fend ourselves.
So true friendship is a myth ?
Yes .Believe in me.
Friendship is a toxic waste of time.Friendship is an illusion ( Maya )
So who can be your best friend in the end ?
Just look into the mirror.
“I myself am the only friend I have.” Terence
Please share your views whether friendship is a fraud on people.I appreciate.