14 thoughts on “Can you answer ?( Question series no-33)”
I think we humans love coz it makes us happy..we sacrifice for love to keep the relationship intact coz being close to the ones we love makes US happy…so love can be unconditional not demanding anything from the loved ones but we do it coz of our own happiness
I understand,but don’t you think it can’t be one way traffic ? Is it possible to love some body unconditionally without expecting any thing in return ?
Thank you for your thoughts.
I can understand.Sometimes it takes time for one to realise that the other person is more interested in extracting things from us rather than showing and sharing love.Most selfish persons ! Better to ignore these souls
Unconditional love probably does not exist. It is an ideal that we made up to make us happy. But we can be happy with conditional love too. We can love on the condition of being loved back.
Couldn’t agree more.
It’s a kind of ‘give and take’ policy.
Better if one realises this fact, before getting married or entering into relationship.
Thank you Betul Erbasi
Unconditional love requires
a degree selflessness.
The Christian message of
dying to self seems to be a key.
“They talk about a life
of brotherly love.
Show me someone
who knows how to live it.”
~ Bob Dylan (Slow Train)
I think we humans love coz it makes us happy..we sacrifice for love to keep the relationship intact coz being close to the ones we love makes US happy…so love can be unconditional not demanding anything from the loved ones but we do it coz of our own happiness
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I understand,but don’t you think it can’t be one way traffic ? Is it possible to love some body unconditionally without expecting any thing in return ?
Thank you for your thoughts.
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I cannot give unconditional love to someone that does not give the same to me.
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Yes.
It cannot be one way all the time.
Thank you Allys Notebook.
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I agree I tried it. It was me that was giving and loving all the time and received nothing in return.
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I can understand.Sometimes it takes time for one to realise that the other person is more interested in extracting things from us rather than showing and sharing love.Most selfish persons ! Better to ignore these souls
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Sometime we are manipulated by these selfish persons. They come across as being loving and charming, they then let their guard down .
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Perfectly said 👌
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👍🙂
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Unconditional love probably does not exist. It is an ideal that we made up to make us happy. But we can be happy with conditional love too. We can love on the condition of being loved back.
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Couldn’t agree more.
It’s a kind of ‘give and take’ policy.
Better if one realises this fact, before getting married or entering into relationship.
Thank you Betul Erbasi
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Yes.Sometimes partner/spouse are too selfish,and it is impossible even to dream that they change over the time.Thank you
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Unconditional love requires
a degree selflessness.
The Christian message of
dying to self seems to be a key.
“They talk about a life
of brotherly love.
Show me someone
who knows how to live it.”
~ Bob Dylan (Slow Train)
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Beautiful quote.
True Selflessness is the Key.
Thank you David Redpath.
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