I am not talking about your disappointments because of your assumptions,presumptions or expectations going wrong and you getting upset.
I am also not talking about failures,injustice,betrayal or loneliness
The list can be never ending as per you !
But I have just one answer and that is ‘Words’
Why ?
Because, Words’ are powerful !
Words hurt more than action.
‘Words’ can cause lot of emotional pain.
“Stick & Stones may break my bones,but words will break my soul”
Intensity of the emotional pain becomes much more if these ‘words’ come from someone.who means everything to us.
Seriously do ‘words’ hurt ?
Words per se don’t hurt.It is the subjective meaning of each of us give importance to them,that alone hurts.
Strangely we can never forget the ‘Hurtful words’,though one is in mood to forgive.Check this link.
One can forgive,but can one erase the bitterness ?
” Dogs bite sometimes,people bite all the time,with their hurtful words ” Mehmuet Murat Ildan
Finally
Do you know the funny part of the ways of human beings ?
” some people hurt you and then act like you hurt them “
Thank you
Philosophy Through Photography
Yes and make us feel guilty even though we are the victims of their cruel and harsh words and they are so convincing that we even end up justifying their behavior
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Very true.
Situations are possible as to what you said.
Thank you Meenawalia.
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True! I loved the last line- “some people hurt you and then act like you hurt them”.Let me tell you there are countless people in this category because they are very weak people and hv no guts to own up their weakness and frustrations.
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Well said Ravisingh.
I guess these type of people suffer from inferiority complex.
Thank you
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Yes,you are right,Philo! they suffer from inferiority complex too.
Thank you dear!
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If i may ask you,where do you live in India?
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Well said.
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Thank you Maza
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Very well analysed and well portrayed Sri. Every word you have said here is true. Very relatable. Especially ” Intensity of the emotional pain becomes much more if these ‘words’ come from someone.who means everything to us.”
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