21 thoughts on “Can you answer this ? ( question series- no 11)”

1. Love, or lust ? Many males find it
   difficult to tell the difference.

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   1. True and it is very difficult to differentiate between love and lust.
      Many men claim that they miss the love part in their married life ,hence trying to find from other woman!
      Thank you David Redpath.Appreciate your help in trying to solve this mystery .

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2. Why is the question only for men? Humans on a whole are affected!

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   1. Thank you NJ.yes what you say is correct.It is said the percentage of married women looking for other men is said to be miniscule. Thank you, appreciate stopping by.

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      1. ahmmm… so all the married men looking for another woman are searching for unmarried women? to have an affair?

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         1. Thanks again.I guess it all depends on the mind set.

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3. because marriage makes them brave? enough to have more women in their life? most unmarried men struggle with one girlfriend!

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   1. Quite possible.or as the proverb says’ familiarity breeds contempt’……. People get bored and look for new tastes.
      Thank you so much for your perspective.

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4. Bcz they do not get it in their woman. If this was not true,prostitution would not have been flourishing.In some cases,it is bcz of perverted mind also!
   But, now can you answer my question?
   Why unmarried girl marries a married person?

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   1. Not fair! if i have given u my honest answer i too expect you to answer my question! you cant just give it a like.

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5. Thanks Ravi Singh.
   There can be different reasons for unmarried girl marrying a married man.Some I could think are…….
   Circumstances in the Family,financial situations involved, sometimes even forced marriage,rarely the girl being greedy of the man’s money💰 etcetera.
   Please let me know any thoughts come to your mind.
   Thanks again.

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6. yolo!

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7. It’s the same with women as well…

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   1. Yes.it’s both ways.
      Thank you Rajini for stopping by and giving your thoughts.

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      1. You are most welcome…by the way I truly appreciate your thoughts on these innocent trusting animals…

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         1. Thank you Rajini

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8. Marrying someone you love and stay remain in that love till last with all the added responsibility of a family is like a mirage in the desert … Probably that’s why…

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   1. Thank you Ana,But is there any guarantee that new found love will be devoid of mirage ?
      Or one must go on trying till the mirage disappears ?
      What are your thoughts.?

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      1. No way there is no guarantee at all. Sometimes it might turn out to be the worst decision than the first one.
         The mirage Infact never disappears. The one who could find fault with his wife will find fault with the lover too.
         Let me offer you a simple solution:
         Remain single for life…no commitment…no confusion.
         Life long be happy.

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         1. Ana,are you sure what you are expressing ??
            Remaining single is a good decision depending on individual experience.But why you feel you may not find good and understanding friendly soul as one moves on with life ??Still it is possible no ?

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            1. Am I sure about what Sri? If it’s about the solution I gave you then don’t you think, it’s much better to be like that. Any one who values their freedom would agree with me.
               Nalla Mattukku oru soodu podhum Sri.

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