Can you answer this ? ( question series no-9 )

Why loving is easy but difficult to sustain ?

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  23 comments for “Can you answer this ? ( question series no-9 )

  1. April 18, 2019 at 11:37 am

    Because sustaining a relationship requires Hard work, Patience , Acceptance , Sacrifices , Understanding, Respect from both.

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    • April 18, 2019 at 12:09 pm

      Well said Accidental Blogger.
      All the 6 points you mentioned are the most important ones and toughest to follow in true sense.
      No surprise maintaining the relationship is hardest.
      Thank you.

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  2. April 18, 2019 at 12:51 pm

    Good question, dear blogger.
    Keeping love alive is sometimes very difficult.

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  3. Ravisingh
    April 18, 2019 at 1:49 pm

    Over expectation and lack of honesty is the main reason for not sustaining it!

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    • April 18, 2019 at 2:27 pm

      Yes.Agree.Over expectations lead to disappointments.
      One more thing equally important I feel is one’s Egoistic nature .Thank you Ravisingh ji

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  4. Ravisingh
    April 18, 2019 at 2:32 pm

    True! Y b so formal! Just call me Ravi!

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  5. April 18, 2019 at 6:29 pm

    I really don’t know how to answer that question…
    Because personally for me when it was meant to be easy but was so difficult and vice versa…
    Differs person to person I guess..

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  6. April 18, 2019 at 7:32 pm

    Yeah….human mindset is a highly complicated complex stuff impossible to decipher.
    Plenty of Saints are there to give infinite saintly advices….but who is listening ?
    Thank you Chiru.

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  7. April 19, 2019 at 12:20 am

    Because we get used to that person and there’s nothing interesting about them anymore. So love too wears off after some time.

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  8. April 19, 2019 at 6:22 pm

    Expectations are the major killer reason which kills love a slow death. Possessiveness is another reason which drives away love slowly as one starts feeling chained down by the other’s possessive nature.
    I feel Ego also plays a great role along with lasting memory of hurtful words hurled at each other during a verbal combat and an unforgiving nature adding fuel to the already existing factors.
    All these together sees to that the love which was all what you felt for that one special person in your life which you had when you started of initially going down the drain.

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    • April 19, 2019 at 7:47 pm

      Well said Ana,True…
      Abnormal high expectations, agressive possessiveness,and non stop egotism all leading to total disappointment and dejection , finally ending the wonderful real life story….what is supposed to be a happy- ever- after life, as we see in fairy tales. Thank you.Appreciate taking your time inspite of tired schedule.

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      • April 19, 2019 at 7:50 pm

        Haha… totally refreshed … don’t worry. Your post have that effect on me I suppose…😉
        Always make me think in every aspect …

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        • April 19, 2019 at 8:07 pm

          Ha…
          I am humbled and in the process got floored and finding difficult to get up.
          Somebody there ,please help me.😂😂🤣🤣

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          • April 19, 2019 at 8:22 pm

            Haha…vaange I floored you…so let me help you to get up from the floor…. hold on to my hand and lift yourself up….😁😁😁

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  9. April 19, 2019 at 7:15 pm

    Why asking this question is easy, however difficult to answer … 🙂 As a perception, I believe it takes the willingness of both persons involved to sustain their “madness” with one another. And patience within oneself and towards each other. Understanding, empathy, respect for one another. If one-sided, it ceases to be sustainably loving in the long term. Perhaps, loving is easy because it happens; sustaining is difficult as it has to ‘make happen’, requiring perseverence and maturity of the lovers towards a healthy experience together.

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    • April 19, 2019 at 7:31 pm

      Wow wow ,what a wonderful way you explained.
      Preserverence and maturity from both concerned sustains the love and affection .Well said Esharvi, couldn’t agree more.Thank you.

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      • April 19, 2019 at 9:11 pm

        You are welcome, Sridhar.

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