Both of them were uncertain; both of them were trying as much as they could; both of them would doubt themselves, would progress and recede. But they would both keep trying, because they trusted the other, and because the other person was the only other person who ever be worth such hardships, such difficulties, such insecurities and exposure. ‘Hanya Yanagihara’
Do you believe in , that true friendship is possible in the real life ??

Wasn’t friendship its own miracle, the finding of another person who made the entire lonely world seem somehow less lonely

Hanya Yanagihara

Moving together  and interacting with our  friends in our circle (offline) ….at least we know each other by face, by real name, our habits, our nature, our jobs, our commitments etc. etc. and it’s an altogether different, in online friendship.

What about online friendship that too with an unknown person ?

what is your experience ??

I always wonder how these unknown online friends who know nothing of the other,but still keep in touch with each other as if they are the long-lost friends and they are also aware that they are separated by thousands of miles in this beautiful world….I don’t know what makes these two to gel so well  !!

I even read somewhere that in one such case, the friendship continued even  beyond 10 yrs !!

You never regret for making such a strong bond over the time with friends especially unknown….irrespective of the age, background, looks, status, liabilities, their individual responsibilities…….

Just read these beautiful quotes regarding ‘friendship’ by Hanya Yanagihara

Friendship is the most underrated relationship in our lives. It remains the one relation not bound by law, blood, or money — but an unspoken agreement of love.

Hanya Yanagihara

Why wasn’t friendship as good as a relationship? Why wasn’t it even better? It was two people who remained together, day after day, bound not by sex or physical attraction or money or children or property, but only by the shared agreement to keep going, the mutual dedication to a union that could never be codified.

Hanya Yanagihara

You won’t understand what I mean now, but someday you will: the only trick of friendship, I think, is to find people who are better than you are—not smarter, not cooler, but kinder, and more generous, and more forgiving—and then to appreciate them for what they can teach you, and to try to listen to them when they tell you something about yourself, no matter how bad—or good—it might be, and to trust them, which is the hardest thing of all. But the best, as well.

Hanya Yanagihara
Thank you

7 thoughts on “Miracle

  1. Intersting post…but i never exprienced online friendship ,
    But i think we can give a try … But now the quetsion s how long it will last … ? Even if it last for years dont you feel like to see them and Hug! ! And morever bond should be so deep ki we should accept the way the other person is … I dont think so for me it will work becoz i can resist to see the person with whom am very close …Arre yaar abh mera weekend tho iss soch mein rehka …. Chalo sridhar ji thanks for sharing .


  2. Online friendship has it’s advantages and it’s disadvantages on par.
    If the concerned person’s wave length meets the other and both have equal interest in continuing the friendship then why not.
    But take it slow and steady.
    When in olden days pen friends could last for years together their friendship then why not an online friendship?
    If both the parties are matured enough, I think they both know how to make the online friendship lasts.
    But it’s not a game for the weak hearted or the feeble ones who at the drop of a hat wants to meet up and needs the reassurance of the friendship in person.
    My opinion….it might change from person to person.
    I have seen some beautiful moments in an online friendship and stand witness to the fact it can bud if nourished properly.

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    1. Thank you Ana
      Nothing to add to what you already mentioned.
      Thought processes in online unknown friendship can be from simple to complex ……the whole lot depends on maturity level of the individuals.
      Personally .
      I feel mental maturity in continuing online friendship must be a perfect 100%.
      Glad you are lucky to be a witness and I can guess your 6 th sense never goes wrong.
      I agree there are no short cuts.
      Thank you so much for dropping in and enlightening further on this subject

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