Why do we Judge others ? Do we have the right ?
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I am not talking about friends & relatives judging us or vice versa.
I am talking about people we come across in our day-to-day life,whom we know nothing about ( unknown to us ).
It is but natural for all of us to judge the other person with an electrifying speed !
How do we judge a person ?
By appearance= Facial-ugly or beautiful ..Body build -fat or thin ?
Body Language ?
By color ? Whether smiled or not ? By hairstyle ?
By Behavior ? By person’s dress ? By seeing the tattoos and piercings ?
Is it true that ‘ First impression is the best impression’ ?
And later on many times we felt sorry that our first impression went horribly wrong!
Then why we jump to judge people ? Do we have any right ?
Probable reasons for rushing to Judgment …..
Is it because of fear of the unknown?
Is it because…I can never go wrong, (mind-set)
Is it because we think we are superior and at the top of pyramid and rest are lesser mortals ?
Is it because ,we are insecure about ourselves?
Are we not lying to ourselves by judging others ? The answer is ……
“Judge me if you want, but at the end of my life, I choose to have memories not regrets.” Steve Maraboli
Read this story
A 24-year-old boy seeing out from the train window, shouted…
“Dad look the trees are going behind!”,dad smiled and a young couple sitting nearby,looked at the 24 year old’s childish behavior with pity,suddenly he again exclaimed…”dad,look..the clouds are running with us!”
The couple couldn’t resist and said to the old man…”why don’t you take your son to a good doctor ?”.The old man smiled and said….I did and we are just coming from the hospital,my son was blind from the birth,he just got his eyes today…”
Every single person on the planet has a story.
Don’t judge people before you truly know them.The truth might surprise you.
“Judge tenderly, if you must. There is usually a side you have not heard, a story you know nothing about, and a battle waged that you are not having to fight.” Traci Lea LaRussa11
Judging the other in a flash of second…….I call it blind Judgement.
“Judging others make us blind.where as love is illuminating.By judging others we blind ourselves to our own ( short comings ) and to the grace which others are just as entitled to as we are.” Dietrich Bonhoeffer
Any thoughts you have ? Would you like to share ?