We all leave legacy be good are bad.And if you think you will be remembered for that,you are sadly mistaken.
That is what happens in life.
But once you are dead,do you really care whether any body remembers you at all !
Don’t be shocked to the fact that even your kith and kin forget you over the time.Don’t blame them !
My guess is if you leave a legacy of kindness may be you will be remembered for sometime.
Occasionally children may recollect what their dad or mom told them.
Wife or husband surely miss the other person and cherish the shared bonds from time to time.
What I am trying to tell is,the frequency of thinking of that person will be less and less as time moves on,though memories remain.( Memories can not fade)
Instead
Don’t you think it is a great feeling when people who are associated with you, remember you,when you are alive ?
I conclude…..
To strive to be remembered after death is a vain attempt to achieve immortality
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There is quiz too….to know how you will be remembered after you die ! ( just for Fun don’t take it seriously.)
how you will be remembered after death
It may sound selfish but my only interest is in the alive me, once I’m dead I am of no consequence!
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Yeah well said.I agree fully.Let each one of be a little bit selfish in ourselves,when we are alive.
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I’m not sure I’m that consequential while I’m alive never mind dead.
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Thank you Bereavedandbeingasingleparent,People remember us for all the bad or wrong things we do when we are alive.Conveniently they remember to forget all the good things we do when we are alive ( including children sometimes )
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Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep
By Mary Elizabeth Frye
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning’s hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.
Good morning my friend i believe that only the persons that have loved us will remember us!!!!!
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Well said.Loved Mary Elizabeth Frye .
Goodmorning.True what you said .Thank you.
Take good rest.Drink plenty of oral fluid my friend
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Τhank you!!! Good night my friend!!
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