Bullshit In the guise of True Love !

Bullshit in the guise of true love.

The most common lie uttered without thought, sincerity, resolve, or guilt: I love you. ‘unknown’

See this clip(117 seconds) before you proceed further.

Does true love exist? I dare !

Rabbi Dr.Abraham calls’Love out of selfishness’ is a Fish Love.He

says”Fish love is poisoning marriages,damaging homes and breaking


Sex,money or power will decide the intensity of the so-called true love.

you may blast me that ….I am,atrocious,stone-hearted, silly, crazy, cruel,disgusting and disappointing but I am not dejected,because one day you realize that none can show the true love without expecting something in return. And that day,you are sure to remember me!The love what you expect / or given is nothing but ‘fake love !

In this world no body is willing to give unconditional love,though they can, if really they want,but they won’t because of the inherent selfishness.

I shall give just 2 examples.My discussion is limited to so called ‘unbreakable human love’

1.Romanticizing love.(couples)

‘I love you beyond eternity’,

‘If loving is wrong,then I don’t want to be right ‘

‘My love for you is a journey starting at forever & ending never.

‘You’re the first boy I ever kissed Jake,and I want you to be the last'(hollywood dialogue-movie-sweet home Alabama)

‘I think I’d miss you even if we’d never met'( movie-wedding date)

If these things are true….Why you see so many cases of divorces?

2.If true love were there( parents vs children)…

Why there are so many old age homes and homes for destitute ? And what about.. Orphanage,Children homes ?

Ron Leighman in Quora (on love is bullshit)
“Because love is a fraudulent emotion, it doesn’t exist. They say the love you Blah blah blah. Then once you get/give them what they want they kick you to the curb like yesterdays garbage. You may as well expect it because it will happen. Expect it then you feel no pain when it happens”.

Are we into the ‘Fantasy Love’?

“Of all the lies you told me….’I love you’ was my favorite”.

True love is possible only when the people concerned are mature enough ( this happens as they age ) to see both sides of the point of view.

Finally,the difference between True Love & Pure Love.

True Love may not be possible all the time ,but Pure Love is possible.


Loving what you get is compromise.

Getting what you love is Success.

Loving without caring whether you will get it or not is true love.

Loving even after you knowing that you won’t get it..is pure love.



credits& inspiration-Pixabay,hubspages, pinterest,quora,net

  12 comments for “Bullshit In the guise of True Love !

  1. January 9, 2019 at 12:12 pm

    I Personally Believe That True Love Is A Very Spiritual Thing & It Doesn’t Involve Common Practice Like Dating Etc. I Think That Denial of The Existence Of True Love is a Little Bit Over Saying But Expecting It Everywhere Is a Huge Expectation.

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    • January 9, 2019 at 1:02 pm

      Thank you Pankanzy for your perspective.
      Here I am trying to analyze the difference between ‘true love’ and ‘pure love’ as I mentioned in the last sentence of the post .
      For example.Mothers love/sacrifice to her baby child is True Love,not necessarily can last longer. ( Mother can vary her love to her many children as the kids grow…that is a different matter)
      The example for ‘Pure Love’ I would like to give to the faith & dedication of ourselves to the Almighty.( Kind of… total surrender without any expectation in return)
      You can guide me further on this subject.

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      • January 9, 2019 at 3:12 pm

        If Love Is True It’s Not Eternal ,I Agree With You But It’s Effect Can Be Seen For Eternal Time For example a Flower’s Beauty & Smell Is Only For a Short Duration But The Stones Can Survive For a Billion Years But That Doesn’t Mean Stones are More Loveable. Longevity Is Not a Scale To Measure Love at All . As Far As Humans are Concerned We Have Specify Love as A ThingWhich Happens But It’s a State Of Being . For Example as You Stated Mother’s Love Is Not True But I Think Motherhood Is A State Of Being,Her Love Is Her State Of Existence. Maybe The Mother Doesn’t Show Her Love Everytime She Saw Her Kids But When Her Kids are In Trouble She Will Be There For Them. One More Example Is That You Can’t Be Patriotic Every Moment,But When Your Country Is In The State of War & You are There in Front Of Bullets For Your Country Then You Were always in Love With Your Country. True Love Is Silent & Hidden Because It’s a State of Being Like a Male Person Doesn’t Need To Prove Everytime That He Is Male & Have Male Genitals. It Is His Very Existence. Love Can’t Be Celebrated Or Explained But It Only Can Be Feel.

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        • January 9, 2019 at 4:41 pm

          Thank you Pankanzy,
          For discussion sake Let us just concentrate LOVE in relation to human being,not flower or stones.
          As I understand from you,
          1.Love is a state of being and can fluctuate depending on the circumstances and this love is ‘love in general’.This can increase or decrease.
          2.True love is hidden and is in existence,silent and can be felt.
          Forget about ‘general love’….My point is how, anybody know of true love being expressed ?
          3.My another doubt is can ‘pure love’ exists along with ‘true love’ ?
          4.Also if possible explain something about spiritual vs Devine love.
          I hope I am not taking much of your time.


  2. January 9, 2019 at 2:05 pm

    To love is too compromise!

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  3. January 9, 2019 at 2:21 pm

    To me what you said appears to be correct .Since we are not Gods… .Love is likely to be a compromise.Thanks Orvillewrong


  4. January 9, 2019 at 3:15 pm

    Saying ‘I love you’ has become a fad now only to cease when they find someone else interesting. Everyone loves for their own motives. It may be due to boredom, peer pressure, or just because it’s trendy to do so. Even parents love their kids showing partiality to one of them and their love is supposed to be the purest?! But everyone wants to live in this fantasy world called ‘love ‘ knowing very well in their mind that it’s just a myth.

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    • January 9, 2019 at 4:57 pm

      Thank you Savitha.Couldn’t agree more.
      I guess now a days the usage of the word ‘ love ‘ has lost its value and true meaning.
      And pure love is rare.
      Things are more commercialised.

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  5. January 9, 2019 at 8:40 pm

    Wow!!! A thought provoking post indeed…and as I see a very debatable topic too. Kudos to you for thinking differently.

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  6. NJ
    May 15, 2019 at 3:41 pm

    Lovely article! 😀 people who confess never-changing love always have always amazed me.
    Love that a mother has towards her child is true and pure. Will change with time, will reduce, increase, and will be prone to life-ly changes; but will never go away.
    Other than this, love prevails… here and there.

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  7. May 15, 2019 at 3:53 pm

    Thank you NJ
    Appreciate stopping by and giving your valuable input


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